You know you’ve done it! It is an impolite act but who would ever call you out? It isn’t like you are peeking out your window like Mrs. Kravitz in Bewitched who spied on the peculiar behaviors of Samantha. (See this clip Bewitched with Mrs. Kravitz)
I am a people watcher and eavesdropping on conversations is a favorite pastime. You can learn a lot when you quietly observe. I’ve learned plenty as I have perfected my art of listening.
Leading phrases can peak your interest:
Did you hear what so-and-so did?
Have you heard what they are doing at work?
You wouldn’t believe what I heard!
In addition to these leading lines, I have heard almost every inappropriate joke. I have heard some of the most insulting opinions you could imagine. I have been shocked by things people say when they think no one is listening!
The scripture says to not let any unwholesome talk come out from our lips. Say what is only pleasing innGod’s sight.
Ephesians 5:4 -- Obscene stories, foolish talk, and coarse jokes--these are not for you. Instead, let there be thankfulness to God.
Gossip, lying, & negative talk can be damaging but what is worse is that our words have the power to create! What we say may become alive in our heart & mind. Proverbs 18:21 reads: "The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences." We think that we may be just venting frustrations & believe that we are gaining sympathies but in actuality we may be feeding our own negative outlook.
I love the saying, "Live today in such a way that yesterday becomes jealous." Our outlook and self-talk actually can determine our future.
Just as I sit to listen to my nearby booth neighbors at restaurants or other places, I am reminded today that God is also eavesdropping on what we say and even think.
