A Do-Over: Nothing Wasted

## Introduction

Today, I invite you to journey with me through a message that speaks to the very essence of our lives: the idea of a do-over, a chance to start fresh, and the promise that nothing is wasted in the eyes of God. To kick things off, let’s consider a film that many of you may know well: "Groundhog Day," starring Bill Murray. In this iconic movie, Murray's character finds himself reliving the same day repeatedly, providing a comedic yet profound exploration of second chances. 

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This theme resonates deeply within our Christian faith, reminding us that God continually grants us opportunities for renewal and grace, regardless of our past mistakes. As we reflect on our lives, we recognize that sometimes we are handed a do-over, much like the characters in the film.

### God Offers a Do-Over!

We’ve all experienced moments in our lives where we wished we could hit the reset button. Life offers us situations that leave us with a longing for a do-over. Perhaps it was a hurtful word spoken in anger, a conversation that went awry, or a regretful decision that still haunts us. 

Consider the words from Psalm 145:8-9 (NLT): “The Lord is merciful and compassionate, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love. The Lord is good to everyone. He showers compassion on all his creation.” It is comforting to know that God's character is rooted in mercy and compassion, always ready to offer us a fresh start.

This theme of redemption is not only prominent in our lives but is also woven throughout the pages of Scripture. Take Moses, for example. He was called to lead the Israelites out of Egypt but made a grave mistake by taking matters into his own hands, resulting in the death of an Egyptian. Despite his failures, God approached Moses in the burning bush and offered him a do-over (Exodus 3).

Similarly, we see this in the life of King David. After his sin with Bathsheba, he faced severe consequences, including the tragic loss of their first child. Yet, even in his brokenness, God extended grace to David, allowing him to start anew. In 2 Samuel 12:24 (NLT), it states, “Then David comforted Bathsheba, and he went to her and slept with her. She became pregnant and gave birth to a son, and they named him Solomon. The Lord loved the child.” Through Solomon, God’s plan continued, demonstrating that His grace can turn our failures into something beautiful.

The concept of a do-over extends further. Think of Jacob and Esau, Joseph and his brothers, or Peter, who denied Jesus three times yet was restored. Each of these figures illustrates that God’s grace allows us to learn from our failures and gives us the opportunity to fail forward.

No matter how far we think we’ve strayed, God invites us to bring our brokenness to Him, assuring us that He can create something beautiful from our mistakes. 

### The Importance of Grace

As we contemplate the significance of grace, I recall a personal anecdote from my dating days. I once thought it would be a sweet gesture to leave a chocolate candy bar in my girlfriend Cindi’s car, accompanied by a note. However, the heat melted the chocolate, making a mess instead of a memorable moment. This situation reminded me that not all good intentions yield good results, and sometimes we wish we could redo those moments.

David Jeremiah eloquently puts it, “Regarding our sins and souls, Jesus paid it all. We come to him with a load of guilt and confess all our regrets. We tell Him about that moment of foolishness that causes shame. As we confess it, He forgives it.” This assurance of forgiveness is powerful, yet it’s essential to understand that grace is not a license to sin. 

I can personally attest to the consequences of my actions. As a police chaplain in Wheaton, Illinois, I experienced the consequences of distracted driving firsthand. I sped through a school zone, fully aware of the potential repercussions. Thankfully, one of the officers, a sergeant who had installed me as a chaplain, let me off with a warning. He said, “Carder, slow it down next time.” In that moment, I wished for a do-over, but I learned a valuable lesson about responsibility.

David Jeremiah continues, “As we lay it before Him, He washes it away with the blood of Calvary. What God has forgiven should no longer have dominion over our minds.” This is a powerful reminder that through Jesus, we are offered a spiritual do-over.

### The Abundance of God’s Grace

It is important to recognize that God does not merely want to pardon our sins; He desires to provide us with an abundance of life. It can be frustrating when we encounter individuals who underestimate the significance of grace. We sometimes hear people say, “Don’t worry about it,” without understanding the depth of the cost of our sins.

A personal experience comes to mind: I once faced the challenge of being fired seven times while working at Ponderosa. Each time, I learned valuable lessons that contributed to my growth. This experience aligns with Stuart Briscoe's words: “There is unspeakable joy for the person who knows release from guilt and the relief of forgiveness.” 

### Nothing Is Ever Wasted

The good news is that with God, nothing is ever wasted. Our lives are filled with moments where we may feel we have squandered time, resources, or relationships, yet God assures us that every experience, even our failures, can be redeemed. 

In John 6:12 (NIV), we find Jesus instructing His disciples after the miraculous feeding of the 5,000: “When they had all had enough to eat, he said to his disciples, 'Gather the pieces that are left over. Let nothing be wasted.'” This moment exemplifies the importance of stewardship and the belief that every situation can serve a divine purpose.

I once participated in a street evangelism initiative called Revive Indiana, where we shared the gospel in downtown Marion. During one encounter, a man expressed his belief that his sins were too great for God to forgive. He felt that his life had produced nothing good. In that moment, we were able to share the transformative message of hope—that with God, nothing is ever wasted.

### The Art of Kintsugi

In the context of restoration, I’d like to highlight the Japanese art of Kintsugi, which involves repairing broken pottery with gold. This art form symbolizes the beauty found in brokenness. Like Kintsugi, God takes our shattered lives and makes them more beautiful through healing and grace.

In Romans 8:28 (NLT), we are reminded, “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” When we acknowledge our missteps and offer them to God, we allow Him to work in our lives.

### Embracing God’s Plan

As we consider the implications of our spiritual do-overs, it becomes evident that God desires to make all things new in our lives. A retired minister friend of mine sends daily devotionals that inspire reflection. One particularly fitting message reminds us that “Winter seems so stubborn, unwilling to release its frigid grasp. You are weary of the weather and the lifeless scene outside your window. Remember that God is still at work even in the wintertime.”

This sentiment resonates deeply with the promise found in Revelation 21:5: “I am making all things new.” 

### Conclusion

As we reflect on the grace of God and His willingness to offer us do-overs, let us remember that it is not the absence of fault or sin that defines us but rather the price paid for our sins. Jesus paid it all. Every opportunity for renewal is a testament to His unending love and mercy.

What regrets do you carry today? What do you wish you could redo? I encourage you to take those burdens to God. Allow His grace to wash over you and renew your spirit. In His hands, nothing is wasted, and every part of our story can be repurposed for His glory.

God’s grace is sufficient! He will restore us and provide spiritual abundance. As we allow Him to gather the pieces of our lives, we uncover the powerful gift of His plan for us. 

We may not be free from troubles, but we can find profound reward in knowing that we need not live in spiritual complacency. 

In closing, I am reminded of the words of Matthew Henry: “When God intends great mercy for His people, the first thing He does is to set them a-praying.” 

Let us resolve to give grace to ourselves and others, to learn from our mistakes, and to embrace the do-overs that God lovingly offers. Amen.

Some of the Buts in God‘s Word.

The Bible contains many "but" phrases that contrast ideas or present a shift in thought. This quick article hopefully will cause you to take a look and increase your interest in Bible reading. 

Here are some notable examples from various translations and contexts:

1. Genesis 50:20 - "But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good..."

2. Exodus 14:14 - "The Lord will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace. But..."

3. Psalm 34:19 - "Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all."

4. Psalm 30:5 - "For his anger is but for a moment, and his favor is for a lifetime. Weeping may last for the night, but joy comes with the morning."

5. Isaiah 40:31 - "But those who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength..."

6. Matthew 5:39 - "But I say to you, do not resist the one who is evil..."

7. Romans 3:23-24 - "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, but are justified freely by his grace..."

8. Romans 6:23 - "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord."

9. Romans 8:1 - "There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. But..."

10. 2 Corinthians 5:17 - "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. But..."

Certainly! The use of "but" in the Bible often indicates a contrast between two ideas, actions, or states. It serves to highlight the grace, mercy, and power of God, often juxtaposed against human shortcomings or circumstances. 

Here are some additional notable "but" phrases along with their contexts:

11. John 3:16-17 - "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him."

12. Romans 5:8 - "But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

13. Romans 8:37 - "No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us."

14. Galatians 6:7-8 - "Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life."

15. Ephesians 2:4-5 - "But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ."

16. Philippians 4:19 - "And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. But..."

17. 1 John 1:9 - "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. But..."

18. James 1:12 - "Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him. But..."

19. Hebrews 10:23 - "Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful. But..."

20. 1 Peter 2:9 - "But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession..."

### Themes Highlighted by more "But" Phrases:

A quick way to review some of these contrasting phrases would be to look to the following themes. I’ve outlined a few that you could discover on your own as you go through the scriptures. 

1. Grace vs. Sin: Many passages contrast human sinfulness with God's grace and mercy.

2. Human Weakness vs. Divine Strength: The Bible often presents human limitations alongside God's omnipotence.

3. Temporal vs. Eternal: Many verses point out the fleeting nature of earthly life compared to the eternal life promised through faith.

4. Judgment vs. Salvation: Phrases often juxtapose the consequences of sin with the opportunity for salvation through Christ.

### Importance of "But" in Scripture:

- Contrasts Expectations: "But" phrases often shift expectations, revealing God's surprising ways.

- Offers Hope: They provide a message of hope and redemption, emphasizing that despite our circumstances or failures, there is a divine promise or action at play.

- Encourages Faithfulness: Many "but" statements serve

as reminders to remain faithful and steadfast, reinforcing the idea that God is at work even when situations seem dire.

These contrasts help readers understand the core messages of the Bible, encouraging them to reflect on their own lives and the transformative power of faith. If you're interested in a particular book, theme, or additional examples, please let me know!

This is not an exhaustive list, as there are many more "but" phrases throughout the Bible, each serving to highlight contrasts or key theological points. You may want to explore specific passages to find more examples, as they can significantly enhance your understanding of the text.

The translation of this “conjunctive” word can also be the use of the word, “yet.” 

Check out the Word of the Lord! It will surprise you to hear what God will say to your spirit.

Not A Political Rant, But Unity Matters.

This is not a political rant, but my apologies if something I say offends my readers. Lately we have seen significant transitions in our federal government, with the peaceful transition of leadership. Likewise, there has been significant transition in my own personal life as well.

I don’t want go into details about my personal life, except to say that transitions are inevitable in every organization, business or nonprofit. Having experienced this personally, my thought is on the question, what happens when we are united?

Whether mission, purpose, or even an activity, when people come together, with the blessing of God, and serve the needs of others, being united makes all the difference!

Take for example, a local church group uniting together to serve the least, the last, and the lost . It’s amazing what God will do as we humbly serve one another. 

Philippians chapter 2 tells us to do nothing out of selfish ambition It is an amazing truth that the apostle Paul gave to us while he was in prison in writing to a church that he had founded. There was dissension in conflict that arose. While Paul could not address the issue in person, he sent a letter that described how the church ought to be.

We all wrestle with ego. CS Lewis wrote in Mere Christianity that pride is the most insidious of all sin. Pride removes humility. Our human nature wrestles with this each and every day. Whether we find ourselves prideful because of our spiritual growth, or possessions that we have, or skills and abilities. Nevertheless, we may find ourselves acting according to our flesh.

Our total dependency needs to be upon Christ in all matters. Yet, this is a pretty big, rather audacious expectation.

Now let me get to the more controversial statements in this article.

I find it remarkably refreshing. As I look to our national/federal government coordinating efforts with the state government, much can be accomplished as they are cooperative and unified. Certainly there is conflict, and there are criticisms, but, streamlining operations, removing duplications, and finding a united purpose is essential. I know, you’re ready to jump on the comment section, aren’t you? 

When I look to the matters of the church, a leadership team that is united in purpose and activity, can accomplish much more than if they were divided. I think of many examples of this in my own local church as well, you can too.

When there are changes in leadership, that’s when the test begins. Absent of a leader, can cause others to rival for attention that demands to be heard. We might even create “micro political” agendas that are disruptive and unhealthy for an organization. In fact, if an organization is not healthy, this will surface and can be very destructive.

Word of advice: let us pray when there are transitions in leadership within each organization! I often recommend a 21 day prayer and fast at minimum in order to create and open this in our spirit and in our heart. Simply put, prayer unites.

I attend many prayer groups in my weekly activities. Why? I find it refreshing to hear people asking God for the solution to the problems that we experience.  I’m sure this pleases God and it gives opportunity for God to demonstrate once again His Kingdom objectives.

Okay, enough of the rant. What is my challenge? Let’s remain united. Read Philippians and see what God has to say. Don’t make application for someone else, apply the truth for ourselves.

Persistence: This and Other Words for 2025!

As we step into a new year, it’s a time for reflection and setting goals—both personally and spiritually. Shared in a sermon at the Marion Church of the Brethren, inspired by Ephesians 6:10-18 and other biblical passages emphasized the importance of persistence in faith and the profound promises that God extends to us. These themes resonate deeply as we navigate the complexities of today’s world, filled with spiritual battles and societal struggles.

The following is a summary of sorts. Hopefully you’ll get the main objective out of this message through this article.

### My Journey and the Power of Community

Reflecting on my own upbringing in a large family, I recognize the pivotal role that community and the church played in shaping my faith. From the age of nine, I took my first job, learning the value of hard work early on. Yet, it was the church's bus ministry that introduced me to a heritage of faith—one that I am forever grateful for. The stories of God’s people throughout the Scriptures resonate with the challenges we face today. 

In both the Old and New Testaments, we see a repetitive cycle of God’s people drifting away from His guidance, only to realign with His will after experiencing hardship. As we look at figures like Joseph, Moses, and David, we see a narrative that is both inspiring and cautionary. It reminds us of the importance of our spiritual heritage and the necessity of passing it on to future generations.

### A Troubling Trend

Today, however, there’s a growing concern. Recent statistics indicate that only 2% of parents actively teach a biblical worldview to their children. Furthermore, only 12% of children's and youth pastors hold such a worldview. These figures highlight a disheartening trend: a disconnect between the values of previous generations and those of the youth today. 

As we embark on 2025, my hope is to inspire a revival among our young people. We must engage with them, reminding them of the incredible hope found in God’s Word. Jeremiah 31:33-34 emphasizes that God’s covenant is written on our hearts, offering a promise of forgiveness and knowledge of Him—a promise that is as relevant today as it was then.

### The Armor of God: Prepared for Battle

As we prepare for the challenges of the upcoming year, we must "gear up" for the spiritual battles ahead. Ephesians 6:10-18 provides a powerful reminder of the armor God has equipped us with to face these challenges. Paul instructs us to be strong in the Lord and to put on the full armor of God, which includes the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, and the sword of the Spirit.

This armor is not just a metaphor but a tangible means to withstand the trials we face. When we put on the armor, we arm ourselves with integrity, godliness, and the peace of the gospel. We are reminded that persistence in prayer and faith is crucial. Just as a widow persisted before an unjust judge in Luke 18:4-7, we too must remain steadfast in our prayers, trusting that God will answer.

### Persistence Pays Off

Persistence is a key theme in the Christian walk. Many of us may feel discouraged when faced with rejection or trials, but it's essential to remember that persistence pays off. Each time we step out in faith—whether in prayer, witnessing, or simply living out our beliefs—we are planting seeds for the future.

In my work with Youth For Christ NiN, I’ve experienced the power of persistence firsthand. Engaging with the community and sharing the testimonies of God’s work in the lives of youth demonstrates that our efforts, coupled with God’s grace, can lead to transformation and revival.

### The Promise of Life Through God’s Word

God’s promises are abundant throughout Scripture. According to Herbert Lockyer, there are approximately 8,810 promises in the Bible, each offering spiritual sustenance. These promises are like manna from heaven, providing guidance, comfort, and direction in our lives. 

In 2 Timothy 3:15-17, Paul reminds us of the importance of Scripture. It is not merely a collection of stories but a living testament that equips us for every good work. Each verse can guide us, providing wisdom and insights that are crucial for navigating the complexities of life.

### The Legacy We Leave Behind

As we reflect on the call to pass on our faith, we must remember that the legacy we leave behind is vital. Charles Thomas Studd, a British missionary, famously wrote, "Only one life, 'twill soon be past; only what's done for Christ will last." This poignant reminder challenges us to live intentionally, focusing on what truly matters.

In our interactions with the next generation, we have the opportunity to instill hope and resilience. By sharing our stories of faith, persistence, and the promises of God, we can nurture their spiritual growth and encourage them to forge their own paths.

### Looking Ahead to 2025

As we look forward to 2025, I invite you to consider your own word for the year. For me, the word is “Watch.” Psalm 34:15 states, “The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right; his ears are open to their cries for help.” This verse serves as a powerful reminder that God is attentive to our needs and stands ready to guide us.

In conclusion, as we embark on this new year, let us commit to being persistent in our faith and holding fast to the promises found in God’s Word. May we inspire the next generation to embrace their spiritual heritage and seek a deeper relationship with God. Our efforts, combined with His grace, will lead us to victory in the spiritual battles ahead. Together, let’s equip ourselves and our youth for a future filled with hope, purpose, and the promise of God’s enduring love.

Prayer Updates — Winter 2025

 

View this email in your browser A Prayer Letter Over the last several years, I have been serving in a ministry which is a Faith-based & donor supported. Youth for Christ is a national ministry to young people. This ministry serves to partner with the community and local schools to provide relational ministry to young people.  I send this as an invitation to pray. I believe that God is blessing the work with young people. Your assistance is vital. .  Here are a few things to pray for:  Faith - Finances - Future  Faith — Youth for Christ is a faith-based ministry. Pray for…  Our team builds “Relational Ministry Appointments.” Pray for opportunities to share hope. Pray for students impacted through 3Story. ———————- Finances — Please pray for resources to cover costs for our ministry; grateful for your support. Pray for… More faithful contributors.  Pray for communities needing support.  New resources to grow ministry staff. Check out our financial details.  ———————- Future — We need  strength in 2025! Pray for… Students who struggle with anxieties. Many students have difficult home lives.  The future feels uncertain for young people. As they grow, pray that they would take hold of the incredible benefit of being a child of God. Pray for students with addictive behaviors. ——- ** A recent story was shared with me. ** Read Sophia’s Story.  ——- Many students were impacts by Winter Camp weekend in December.  Please, let’s stay in touch. Also, let me know how I can pray for you. My word of the year is “WATCH.”  Psa. 34:15-18 NLT || The eyes of the Lord WATCH over those who do right; His ears are open to their cries for help. Please pray for me as I give more attention to a developing area in Warsaw, IN while also working with four other counties in my communities.   Pray for opportunities filled by “divine appointments” and growth of resources.  Also, pray for more mission support as I need to be fully funded this year.  Blessed, Rick -- Rick Carder, Regional Director, Youth for Christ RCarder@YFCNiN.org How To Support Read Here ➡️ Latest Family Newsletter Copyright (C) 2025 Rick E Carder. All rights reserved. You are receiving this email because you opted in via our website. I wish to inform you about my ministry and mission. Rick Carder