🧑‍🎄Christmas 2024 Newsletter 🤶

We are nearing the end of another year. Where has 2024 gone?! 

I can hardly believe it! We are fast approaching Christmas in the new year. Today, I want to share with you a few updates from the Carder family.

Having grown children is exciting. I am proud of our adult children and grateful for the blessings that God has given us this past year.

Cindi and I are truly blessed for family. God has given us good health, ministry responsibilities, and plenty of opportunities where we can see God’s hand in our lives. We don’t know what is ahead yet, our faith in God, through Christ has sustained us. 

Just last year, at this time, Jon‘s wife, Staci graduated from the Police Academy. She has been serving for over a year at the Elwood Police Department. 

Jon continues to serve as a K-9 handler and deputy for Hamilton County Sheriff. His dog, Jaeger is a faithful partner. 

Grandkids are incredible! Jase and Ellie are growing too fast! They are excelling in school and aside from getting glasses this year, they are doing well. Jase is finally getting my dad jokes, spontaneously bursting out in laughter when he finally gets it. Of course, Ellie just simply rolls her eyes! 

Jeremiah got married in October of last year to a wonderful young woman, Destiny. We are truly blessed to have her in our family! 

Their two dogs cannot be more opposite of each other – one is huge and the other one is tiny (Zeus and Pancake). Of course we can’t forget the opportunities we’ve had to babysit the dogs and their cat.

Destiny serves as a veterinary technician, and Jeremiah has recently added Detective to his role at the police department in McCordsville. 

   (While at a family wedding.)

Josslyn is doing well. (Pictured in the center.) She is living on her own and in a house that she purchased a while back. She definitely loves animals. I enjoy taking care of some of the maintenance around her place, including her lawn service. ;-) 

It’s been a busy year! 

Cindi remains full-time at Taylor University. She also is serving in a part-time role working with children at Lancaster Wesleyan Church. Her role is to reach out to children and coordinate ministries with children. 

I cannot believe that I have been serving with Youth for Christ for 2 1/2 years. My role is to help discover the resources needed for the ministry to reach young people. It feels funny being a missionary. Serving a donor funded organization can be scary. Raising support can be hard. I am grateful for the support of friends to the ministry. Thank you for your support. 

While Cindi and I are empty nesters, we do have three pets. 🐕 Daisy (pictured below).  🐈‍⬛ Meeko and Frankie are rival cats 🐈 competing for our attention. 

Cats are so very independent and I am not certain how I feel about our having 2.

It is an irony that they are so very independent creature. 

I am not a cat person. Frankie has “chosen” me. (Not exactly what I planned on.)

We are very blessed to have opportunities to serve in our ministries and find time to spend time together. With exception of (most) Hallmark-type movies, Cindi and I enjoy watching certain seasonal movies. We also enjoy being able to plug into our community when possible. Volunteering is fun for me with New Life Meal ministry as well as Hot Dog (meal) Ministry connecting with those who have  food insecurities. Cindi is baking and preparing meals for individuals when needed as well through church involvement.

As the New Year unfolds, though uncertain, we can anticipate with hope that God is in control. His plans, yet unrealized, are good. 

Jeremiah 29:11 reads: “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”

Ellie, Jase, & Daisy

—-

Yeager and Jon

Word For 2025?

Over the last couple of years I have done away with the idea of a resolution. I’ve replaced it. I have re-thought the concept of what a new year brings. Let me explain.

Each year I have chosen a word that I study throughout the year. It’s a word that brings renewed understanding of the scripture as well as vision.

What word will it be for 2025? I have chosen words like, wait, as well as last year‘s word, rest. These have given me direction for how I contemplate and anticipate the year.

What would you choose? As you anticipate the coming year or what is God saying to you? 

Will it be a year of anticipated challenge? Will it be a year of transition? Is it a year where you feel more hopeful?

Perhaps there is something that God is wanting to teach you and he may, like me, put a word on your heart.

Dispense with the resolutions that bring pressure and anxiety. It often brings guilt because we tend to break our resolutions before the year is underway. Rather than the diet plan or the desire to save more money, try something different. It may be time to choose a word that helps you to remain focused.

Coupled with the word may be a scripture that you would look to help discern what God has for you. Each year he placed a passage of scripture on my heart that helped me maintain a spiritual growth in my life.

I haven’t quite figured out what my word will be, but I do believe that God is already beginning to stir in my spirit a focus that will guide me throughout 2025.

Here's To The Crazy Ones: An Overview of the Heroes of Faith.

In the realm of faith, we often grapple with profound questions that challenge our understanding. One such riddle resonates deeply: What does faith know that mere belief can never tell us? The answer lies in the essence of faith—it is the substance that no amount of knowledge could ever fully articulate. This distinction between faith and belief is crucial; it’s a matter of just 6 to 8 inches, the distance from head to heart.

The author of Hebrews articulates the core of a Christ follower’s journey: the ability to know without evidence, driven by the profound quality of faith. This passage invites us to deepen our understanding of faith in the Creator of the universe. When the world observes our simple faith in Christ, they often wonder, “Who are these crazy ones?” Whether they are innovators or those who dare to stand apart, taking risks that most would shy away from, the faithful are everywhere. While some may act for selfish gain, others are motivated by Christ.

Consider Steve Jobs, the visionary behind the Macintosh and Apple products. In the 1980s, he faced skepticism about his ambitious goal to revolutionize personal computing. Yet, he proved the doubters wrong, even making a triumphant return to Apple years later to create the iPhone, a device that has become ubiquitous in modern life. Regardless of one’s views on his personal beliefs, Jobs undeniably transformed the world’s technological landscape. He famously said, “Here’s to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers... the ones who see things differently.” In spiritual terms, this notion of being “crazy” may seem odd, yet Christians are often perceived as such when they stand firm in their faith.

Hebrews 11 serves as a testament to faith in God that transcends mere belief. It chronicles the heroes whose lives were forever changed because they believed what God said and acted on His instructions. For instance, Hannah’s dedication of her son Samuel to the temple reflects a profound act of faith. The heroes of faith, as outlined in this chapter, were not extraordinary individuals; rather, they were simple people who displayed unwavering obedience to God.

To explore this theme further, John Piper offers a powerful framework. He states, “Now faith is: (1) the assurance of things hoped for, (2) the conviction of things not seen.” This brings us to the first aspect—the assurance of faith. Faith is not a static belief but a dynamic trust that compels us to act. It’s likened to being part of a family where love and responsibility thrive. Just as we honor our family lineage, we must also honor our faith heritage.

The second aspect, the conviction of purpose and calling, emphasizes that purposeful living is the cornerstone of the Christian experience. Our lives are redeemed for a purpose, and belief must evolve into faith—an active expression of trust in God. The Bible reminds us that even demons believe in God, but it is faith that transforms belief into action.

Throughout Hebrews 11, we encounter examples of individuals who acted on their faith, often in the face of daunting challenges. The phrase “By faith…” recurs throughout, highlighting that faith mobilizes and inspires, while fear can keep us in bondage. Faith is proactive and freeing; it is eternal, while fear is temporary.

In conclusion, here’s to the crazy ones—those who cling to faith regardless of their circumstances. When life feels overwhelming, faith is all you need. Even when reason falters, faith can sustain you. We often invite people to accept Jesus into their hearts because it is in the heart that faith begins, and understanding follows. The beautiful truth is that you don’t need to have everything figured out to come to faith; Jesus meets us where we are, transforming our lives through faith.

As Hebrews 11:39 reminds us, “These were all commended for their faith, yet none of them received what had been promised, since God had planned something better for us.” The journey of faith is ongoing, and together, we can walk in the legacy of the faithful, becoming change agents for the Kingdom of God.

Unchanging Truths for Changing Times

Adapted from an article by Rebecca Barlow Jordan at Crosswalk-.com. Timeless Truths (Out of print)

(Crosswalk.com. Rebecca Barlow Jordan, 10/11/2012)

"Here are six truths about God that can change your life if you believe and act upon them." - Rebecca Barlow Jordan

In a world characterized by constant change, uncertainty, and fleeting trends, the need for stability and truth has never been greater. The teachings found in Scripture offer us timeless truths that can anchor our lives amidst the storms of life. This article explores several profound truths about God that can transform our lives if we believe in and act upon them.

The Context of Change

As we navigate the ever-changing currents of modern society, we find ourselves bombarded by messages that can undermine our motivation and sense of purpose. Louis Thaxton identifies seven phrases that can stifle our growth and enthusiasm: "It's impossible," "It's not my fault," "When?" "Someday," "I wish," "I don't have the time," and "Not now." These words may seem innocent, yet they can erode our resolve and hinder our success.

Every New Year, people make resolutions, aiming to improve their lives. According to studies, losing weight is often the top resolution, while quitting smoking ranks high among habits to leave behind. This desire for change is not new; even early Methodists gathered on New Year's Eve to pray, make commitments, and confess to one another. The struggle with resolutions reflects a deeper yearning for transformation and purpose.

Chuck Swindoll highlights a concerning trend in our culture: the "I'm getting tired, so let's just quit" mentality. This attitude pervades all aspects of life, from personal fitness to spiritual endeavors. We need to remember that perseverance is essential for growth and that the truths of Scripture can guide us through our trials.

Scripture Foundations

The Word of God provides a solid foundation for our lives. In 1 Peter 1:4-6, we read about a priceless inheritance, kept in heaven, beyond decay and change. This promise assures us that, despite the trials we face, there is joy ahead. The same God who offers us this inheritance is the one who loves us with an everlasting love, as stated in Jeremiah 31:3. His love is unfailing, a lifeline in a world that often feels chaotic and uncertain.

Six Unchanging Truths

Today, I want to share six profound truths about God that can change your life if you embrace and act upon them:

1. God's Love is Unfailing  

   As Jeremiah 31:3 states, God loves us with an everlasting love. His love is not mere tolerance; it is a willful act of genuine affection. Even when we falter or stray, His love remains our anchor.

2. God's Character is Unchanging  

   James 1:17 reminds us that every good and perfect gift comes from God, who never changes. In a world of shifting values and conflicting messages, we can find comfort in the constancy of God's character. His truth remains relevant and powerful.

3. God's Power is Unlimited  

   Luke 1:37 declares, "For nothing is impossible with God." Consider the miraculous births in Scripture, such as that of Jesus and John the Baptist. God’s power knows no bounds, and we can trust Him to work miracles in our lives when we need them most.

4. God's Forgiveness is Unsearchable  

   Micah 7:19-20 tells us that God tramples our sins underfoot and casts them into the depths of the sea. This beautiful imagery illustrates the completeness of His forgiveness. Our past mistakes do not define us; instead, they are swallowed up by His grace.

5. God's Promises are Unending  

   In Deuteronomy 7:9, we see that God is faithful and keeps His promises through generations. The Bible contains approximately 8,810 promises, each one a testament to His faithfulness. Unlike human promises, which can be broken, God's promises are secure and everlasting.

6. God's Sovereignty is Unexplainable  

   Romans 11:33 reminds us that God's wisdom and knowledge are beyond our understanding. His sovereignty means that He is in control, even when life feels chaotic. We can find peace in knowing that He is the ultimate authority over all creation.

The Impact of These Truths

Understanding and internalizing these truths can lead to profound transformations in our lives. As we grapple with challenges, we can lean on the knowledge that God’s love, character, power, forgiveness, promises, and sovereignty are unwavering. 

Consider the story of two men from the 18th century: Max Jukes, who lived without faith, and Jonathan Edwards, who devoted his life to God. The outcomes of their families starkly contrast, showcasing the long-term effects of living in faith versus without it. 

Conclusion

In closing, we must remember that God is unconditional love, unchanging character, unlimited power, unsearchable forgiveness, unending promises, and unexplainable sovereignty. As we face the uncertainties of life, let us hold fast to these unchanging truths that provide us with strength and hope.

In the words of Hebrews 12:27-28, "This means that all of creation will be shaken and removed, so that only unshakable things will remain." With this promise in mind, let us worship God with reverence and gratitude, embracing the stability He offers in a world that is ever-changing. 

By fixing our eyes on these truths, we can navigate the complexities of life with confidence, knowing that our God remains steadfast, no matter the circumstances we encounter.

Prayer Vigil.

Prayer is essential in the life of every believer in Christ. If we were not given to prayer and if not for the intercession of Christ on our behalf, we would not find hope. From the One who lived, died, and rose again we have a spiritual life. It is in Christ that we find our hope and meaning to this life on earth. 

The power of prayer is given to the believer who earnestly seeks God through Christ in the Spirit. Prayer changes things! It ultimately changes me! We become spiritual beings for God’s use to reveal the hope we have in Christ! It is for His Glory that we are saved. 

So, what of corporate prayer? 

We prayer as a unit not only as an individual! We prayer expectantly and fervently asking God to move as only He can! Through us if we are willing but in him as we seek His Will. Prayer is the alignment of my will with God’s Will. 

As believers unite in prayer, on behalf of others and a community, there is much power. Unified prayer as a group that gathers or through a prayer vigil is powerfully effective. James speaks of the fervent prayer of the righteous. (James 5:16)

I write this today as a prayer entry during a prayer vigil. Lord, saves us! Lord, deliver us from evil. Lord, as we pray we unite together during this 24 hour prayer vigil. Unique to the Wabash community is a Prayer House! The Common grounds Prayer ministry has called the community together to pray! 

Prayer is our link with God through Christ! It is our connection!

We prayer because it is a lifeline to every believer! We walk in the Spirit of God and Truth of His Word! 

We are powerless apart from God. We need Him! We seek because we know that God is the answer to our need! 

My heart is moved as I pray! I seek what is good. I ask for God to bring renewal of my spirit with God’s Spirit! 

The prayer vigil is what keeps us in track to unite our efforts in a single focus. This particular prayer vigil is focused on the upcoming election. We know that Only in Christ are we saved and find our hope yet, we seek to ask God to move in the hearts of people to choose values that are expressed in our society and throughout our County (as well as the works).

Prayer guides keep our focus on the essentials of this effort. Scripture reading is how we are reminded of Truth in God! 

We pray because we can. We keep knocking on the door of the only hope we have - in Christ! 

How special it is to have a unified vision for prayer in this community. 

We pray in unity today as a community for the Glory of God! 

The Purpose of Suffering in the Christian Life.

Suffering is an inevitable part of the human experience, and for Christians, it poses profound questions about faith, purpose, and the nature of God. The Bible does not shy away from this topic; rather, it provides reassurance that suffering is not without meaning. As the poster reminds us, “Sometimes God calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage and calms His child.” This sentiment encapsulates the Christian understanding of suffering, offering hope and insight into its benefits.

One of the primary benefits of suffering is the comfort that it brings. In 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, Paul writes, “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction.” When we endure trials, we learn to seek solace in God, and in turn, we become instruments of comfort for others. Our experiences enable us to empathize with those who are suffering, allowing us to share God’s love and grace in tangible ways.

Grace is another powerful return on suffering. It reminds us of our dependence on God and His unending mercy. God’s grace is especially evident in our weakest moments, as expressed in 2 Corinthians 12:9, where Paul states, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” The realization that God’s strength shines brightest in our vulnerabilities helps us embrace our struggles rather than shy away from them.

As Christians, we know the God of all comfort and hope. Perhaps there’s a time that you could set aside to listen to this video and ask God to bring you comfort and your time of sorrow

Moreover, suffering cultivates resilience. When faced with adversity, we have the opportunity to grow stronger in our faith. Romans 5:3-5 tells us, “Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope.” Each trial can lead to a deeper faith and a more profound understanding of God’s promises, enabling us to face future challenges with greater confidence.

As Christians, our suffering also serves as a powerful testimony. First Peter 2:21 reminds us, “For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps.” Our stories of endurance and faith amidst suffering can inspire others and draw them to Christ, who offers hope and redemption.

Suffering is not random; it has purpose. God uses our pain to teach us valuable lessons. James 1:2-4 encourages us to “count it all joy when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.” Each challenge is an opportunity for growth, shaping our character and drawing us closer to our Creator.

Humility is another essential lesson learned through suffering. In our trials, we often recognize our limitations and need for God’s help. This humility aligns us with Christ, who experienced immense suffering yet remained obedient to the Father’s will. Philippians 2:8 states, “And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.”

In conclusion, suffering is an integral aspect of the Christian faith, filled with opportunities for growth and deeper connection to God. Rather than viewing trials as mere burdens, Christians can embrace them as avenues for grace, comfort, and testimony. In our moments of suffering, we find that we are not alone; we are held by a God who understands our pain and walks with us through the storm, ultimately leading us to a place of peace and purpose.

I’m reminded of a video just recently posted on YouTube that depicts the concept of community. In times of suffering, we need to encourage one another. This YouTube video depicts the Amish moving a barn. They used human strength alone, not machinery. It took over 300 to pick up and move the barn. Check it out here.

Follow The Plans.

We all know about the plans that are drawn up for everything that we purchase. It could be the plans that tell you how to operate the device or it could be the plans that tell you how to put it together. There are plans for every step along the way.

Recently, I have taken on a few projects working with wood. I don’t think I’m a carpenter, but I have found plans that are easy to follow. Sometimes I make mistakes, but thankfully, I am able to complete the project. I worry when I end up with extra parts at the end of the task. I just hope that they intended to leave me extra screws.

Some of the wood projects that I am doing, I have worked with my grandkids. We built birdhouses and planter boxes. Some of these were drawn up from plants I found on the Internet and thankfully, I am able to follow along on YouTube.

I’m not highly creative, but as long as there are step-by-step instructions, I can usually find success. Plans are simple, but they could also be very complex. Thankfully, I’m not building a cathedral.

The most challenging project is my most recent endeavor. I’m making an effort to build a coffee table using plans that are far more sophisticated than my skill level. I’ve made a lot of mistakes along the way. Each mistake is a lesson learned.

I’m at the point where I think it’s beginning to actually look like, what the plans are designed for. The Coffee Table is coming together. 

Recently, I took some other basic plans and created a birdhouse with attached feeder and installed it outside my uncle Eddie‘s retirement community window. Thought I might bring him a bit of encouragement to have a few birds fly into his backyard. He can see it from his bed so he doesn’t have to go outside. (My grandkids helped me build this little birdhouse.)

This reminds me that even the plans God has for us could be encouraging to somebody else. We could be the light that others need if we use what skills we have for others. 

The Bible tells us that God has plans for our lives. He is the designer and creator of my life. He is considered the master carpenter.

As I read through the scriptures and apply Truths in my life, it does provide me a direction and a plan for how to live this life and the next. There are values and principles that can guide me. God does know me best and has a plan for my life. (Jeremiah 29:11) 

God’s plans are for his glory! What I do is to represent Christ and all of my endeavors. Certainly, I didn’t create the wood, but God helped me put it in a project that could be useful. 

Like a set of step-by-step instructions, God‘s plans are established to bring us salvation as well as how to live. They are both righteous and moral for my life if I apply those truths in my life.

Each of our lives have purpose. God knows our future and he knows our challenges. He walks with us each day. Turn to Him for hope. Look to Him for help. Listen to Him for direction. Grow and your understanding of Him.

Why I Watch Political National Conventions.

This is a narrative of my experiences over the years. I am a glutton for punishment. I have been a fierce defender of our Democratic Republic. I do believe in the constitution. I have read many books on the history of this country, which I love and serve.

Some people have strange addictions. Mine is watching political debates. Is it because I like conflict? Not really. I do like debates that produce better outcomes! 

Over the last several years, I make every effort to watch the political campaign and see if I can make sense of the Party positions in order to have an informed decision. I base my understanding on the values that I hold near to me.

A lot of people just like to grab their political signs and flags and a rebellious manner. I would prefer to listen and learn as best I can where people are coming from. I am trying to listen more and speak less. By the way, this is a particularly difficult discipline for me.

This year in particular, I have listened to both the Republican National Convention and the Democrat National Convention. Of course, I have seen lies on both sides. You might call them perspectives, but they are subtle yet can skew from truth in many ways.

My effort today is to tell you why I would be such a glutton for political conversations.

I do not plan to tell you how I will vote in November, but I will give you a couple of bullet points for why I remain curious. I remain a skeptic in the political climate of today. 

I think that we have never been divided in my lifetime than we are at this present moment. It is also clearly obvious that the sharp lines of division have never been more clear than they are right now. It seems as though the parties shout with ever increasing intensity about a position that seems so divided.

Ultimately, I believe in the hope of Jesus Christ. We will never solve our political divide through government, interventions of all types or even programs. Even those with the best intentions will fall short because we all have sinned and have fallen short.

By the way, the fact that I use the word sin in this article means that I may be labeled as radical. I do believe that no one is perfect and no candidate will save us from ourselves.

Why would I do this to myself?

1. I want to be known as someone who has clarity in my decision-making.

I prefer to remain independently objective and base my decisions based on facts, not fiction. I am a dreamer, but also a realist! I have a need to know how the party aligns with my values! 

Making decisions means being informed. Making decisions that better others is why I am listening and reading about policies and positions that are available to inform me. 

2. I want to be somebody who is known for listening more than talking.

Although it takes a bit of discipline for me, I am trying to learn to listen more than speak. It’s hard but necessary. I am learning to ask good questions. 

I don’t like everything about every party, but hopefully I am learning and growing as a human being. Hopefully my beliefs in the Bible and my faith are helping me to become a better leader. I have to discover what aligns with my values and beliefs. 

3. I want to be somebody who is not stubborn but remains open minded.

I do think that I double down on positions that I believe to be at the core of my values. However, I am trying to remain open minded enough to find a common place for me to learn. I know that I could be stubborn, but hopefully I could be someone that is learning at the same time. 

I offer respect to everyone and make every effort to find common ground to have a civil discussion. I believe that we can have a good decision if we support liberty. 

4. I want to be somebody who operates out of principles and a set of values more than simply emotional. 

I do think that people who are different than one another can find common value even if we do not agree. yet, all of us has a desire to resolve conflict when possible. Values that we hold may be what is the key to solving real problems in neighborhoods and communities where we live. 

Local politics are far more fun for me because you get to know the various people that are involved in the decisions that affect you. 

National politics does not do this anymore for any one of us. Somehow, we think that we have elected representatives who speak on our behalf, unfortunately, too often people enter into politics as a career and spend their entire career defending their right to stay on the government payroll. 

I am grateful that we live in a country that has a Constitution that is worth defending. The values it promotes began with God not man! 

I am grateful to live in a country that affords us the opportunity of an opinion in the chance to be a productive citizen. I am thankful that we have rights that are given to us, not by government or political persuasion, but by God! 

We know that if the government can give you something, than they can also take it away! These right of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness is foundational. 

However, I also believe, this country has a foundation in which every other country in the world remains envious.

No matter our difference, we can have a civil discussion. We can find a better way! We can solve the issues of the day. 

Let’s chat! 

Legacy is…

Today I want to focus on legacy. It is a term that depicts generational impact we can have on others. A parent to a child is one way; through a family legacy. A mentor and mentee; personal interactions and as an apprentice. There are many type of relationships that can influence someone in a positive way. 

I love the saying, “You impress people from a distance but you impact them close.” We are encouraged to make a difference in someone! 

Legacy is important! We all have it! Some good and for others bad. A legacy is what someone gives. It may be generational (as in a blessing or a curse). 

The word legacy depicts a heritage given. We think of it as always good but in actuality it can be negative. 

Today, we need to look at what is positive. A good heritage!  The Bible says that a good name is better than gold. (Proverbs 22:1) With a good heritage we can make a positive impact in the lives of people we may never meet.

By definition, legacy refers to a lasting impact and the way they will be remembered for generations to come. 

Legacy can be career accomplishments, financial assets, or a loved one's incredible character. 

How you define legacy will determine how you spend your life. When people give of themselves in the lives of others, that is legacy. When we help another we are developing legacy. 

Leave a legacy! Do something that will outlast your lifetime! 

Abraham planted a tamarisk tree. In Genesis 21:33 we read that next to the altar, Abraham planted a tree of which he would never enjoy the shade of. In the dessert he planted a tree that takes 400 years to fully grow and cast a shadow for weary travelers.

Lead From Behind and Other Notions!

Leadership is so important! Like a good parent, lead by developing your team. 

I have heard that we should lead from behind. In fact, there is a book with this title: Leaders Eat Last. Lead with humility is not just an idea. Let me share a few ideas.

Honest humility is a great beginning.

Awesome authenticity is a great way to show up.

Timely arrivals and stand up for your team.

These ideas will shape your potential to lead. Leadership is too often defined as someone who is tallest and best looking. This is a shallow and hollow experience. If you have ever had a terrible boss then you know how not to lead. If you have a better manager than a leader, you know what I mean. If you have ever grown frustrated with your leaders/bosses, you will understand these ideas better than others.

1. Honest humility is not false humility. It is not being shy or meek. It is not our telling others that we are humble. 

It is obvious to people when someone is humble! They don’t brag about it. They don’t show off their goodness.

Leaders who are confident can lead with humility. It is a meekness that is a controlled inner confidence. They know who they are and why they exist! 

Leaders know where they are going but they don’t push others out of the way to get where they are going. Leaders do take others with them. Yet, good leaders lead humbly. They choose humility. If they promote success, they tell what others are doing. 

Honesty is key to their effectiveness. They prepare well. Execute well. Gather what they need. Encourage and empower people. They come to humility naturally. 

Look at 1 & 2 Peter to know more about humility! Peter learned through major changes he experienced in life and through God’s amazing grace he learned humility. 

2. Awesome authenticity is a great way to show up. 

No one likes being in communication with robots. Scripted people are hard to connect with. Everyone resonates with authentic people. They like human conversations! 

When we show up and be ourselves, we gain ground. We grow in relational well-being. 

When people act like human beings, we grow stronger in meaningful relationships. Even more, when leaders share their vulnerabilities we are more likely to follow. Why? We can relate to them. We are human beings. It is not the calendar that leads meaningful relationships. Tasks don’t make us warm and fuzzy. Leaders that demand from us without authenticity will not lead long. 

Take a look at the way Jesus led others. See Matthew 25. Jesus told us to serve people well. 

We can lead from the back of the room when we are authentic. Those upfront are not necessarily leaders. They have titles but they may not connect to the heart of those in the room.

3. Timely arrivals and stand up for your team.

Leaders who use others are not leading. They are thieves. They rob your team of the best ideas and make them their own. 

Leaders show up first! They stand ready to drive the goals. They show their support and do their part. 

Also, leaders stand up for their team. They go to the mat for their team. They own the outcomes and don’t shift blame! Leaders don’t take credit; they choose humility. 

Their success is not for selfish glory. They share the benefits of success. See Philippians 2:5-11.

These three ideas will reshape your humility while leading yourself and others. 

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Of the different styles of leadership, a leader who leads from behind is behaving as a servant leader. Servant leaders see to the needs of the team, which helps create the conditions that allows individuals to shine, making the best use of themselves and available resources. - Sophia Johnson.

What Is Your TESTimony?

We live in an age of instant feedback. We can make comments about anything online. Look at any social media page of any business and you will see it. Some comments can make or break a business. In fact, comments about the quality of food or service can go viral. Look at how many responded to the negative comments that were leveled against organizations that promoted DEI policies in their advertisement. John Deere and Tractor Supply reversed their Corporation statements when people "spoke up."

The church has similar ramifications. Call it consequential or casual, those that make comments about a particular ministry or church experience can cause significant changes. If someone reports that they had a negative experience or is concerned about the church's teaching can diminish their impact in the community. Also, when Christianity is labeled negatively, the impact, while less subtle, can keep people away from Church attendance. 

We see this in real time. When there is a particular message that deems every church as hateful (toward a certain people group) then the consequences are damaging. Or if a church steps up to help after a significant national crisis or disaster, the church has many fans!

What about your personal witnessing brand?  I call this a brand because your reputation does represent more than just you but also your community, family, neighbors, and even coworkers or school classmates. Your testimony can make a difference. 

Say, for example, you go out to eat (especially on a Sunday) and you show that you are a Christian but you show disrespect for the waitress or complain about your service. You create an impression. Your reputation is not only damaged but also the Church as a whole. Why? Your testimony or "Christian Brand" is impacted too. Or, what if you represent yourself as a Christian on Sunday but on Monday you act like the world?  It damages your ability to speak about Christ. 

A testimony means witness. It is a witness of what God is doing in your life. It needs to be authentic and genuine. It needs to reflect Christ as being filled with honesty and grace. It needs to show what you are promoting by how you act (when no one is watching). 

I am writing this short blog today to also point to other articles and messages I have written on evangelism. Check these articles out. 

I am also wanting to talk about the word that is a part of the word TESTimony. It is the word TEST. 

We all have been through experiences that inform our testimony. Some experiences are mere tests. We are tested as Christians. We all have been through hard times. We all have seen our share of tough things. 

What if your journey was such that you can relate to the journey of others? What if your hardship was such that you can speak into the hardship of others? 

Our struggles mean that we are alive!  Our struggles mean that our journey is not yet complete. 

While we may be Christian yet, our experiences can inform and strengthen our walk with God, in Christ. 

What TEST are you going through right now?  What is your struggle?  What have you found victory in? How can you share your journey of faith?

God may have put that test on you, as a believer so that you can share how God walked with you and strengthen you on the way. 

Join in this discussion by sharing what you have experienced and how God used it for His Glory. Send me your TESTimony to rickecarder@outlook.com

I am certain that there is someone who is about to give up. I am certain that there is someone wondering if God even cares. I am certain that there is someone who is losing hope. 

It is our opportunity to share our story and help others who are yet to discover the walk with Jesus that you are having. 

Why Is Not Just A Question!

I hear this all the time. People complain and cry out, “Why?”

You have done this. Me too. We are a people who love to complain. No matter the age, we find reasons to complain. 

It is part of our nature. Complaining is found in the Bible many times. See Lamentations. It is just one place where you find this attitude. We lament! We complain!

So, what do we do with this? It is human nature to be afraid, troubled, and complain. We hate to read the book of Lamentations but we enjoy living in lamentation.

 

We love to complain about the weather. It is something that we cannot control yet, we find ways to complain about it! We all go through hard times. We all find it hard to say nice things. We know how to justify our complaints.

I have a theory on this subject. It is simple. If we can’t say anything good, don’t say anything. However, we find excuses for our complaints. 

Politics or preferences, we love to complain. We all seem to ask questions of things we don’t understand. Moses’ people complained for over 40 years! As a nation, they were given everything that they needed. Yet, they wanted something else. They were, like many of us, fickle! We too often know what we want but we complain the same as them.

So, what do we do with the many questions of why?

Why is this happening to me?

Why do I have to (fill in the blank)? 

We are never satisfied. We never cease from our striving. But, what if we simply become content? Instead of why, we can ask, why not?

Why not? Yes, we need to ask why not? We should understand that if our attitude is positive, we can have a “can-do” attitude. 

If you are asking why, how much better is it to say why not!

Jesus knows - cares - heals. He has been here right where you are? He did not complain? We can’t say that Jesus never asked why?  He showed us that it is okay to ask why. It is not the end of the world.

God wants to hear from you! Let your complaint lead you to God! Let your hardship force you to come to Christ for help! 

So, why not just ask God and take your complaint to Him instead of everyone else. He, in fact wants to let God help! 

By the way, the cure for complaining is gratitude. No matter how dark it is, find something to thank God for. Thankfulness is the cure for those negative experiences and complaints. 

Catch The Spirit of Generosity!

Remember when you received a free gift?  Not just that gift you got when you signed up for your bank account or other subscription-based club. What did you feel when someone just surprised you with that one special gift that you didn't earn or deserve?

Generosity is becoming a popular theme!  It is a major theme today in churches and other community organizations. We are encouraged to give not out of obligation but out of good will. It is a good feeling to give when no one tells you that you have to. When it is spontaneous it is meaningful. Surprises are fun! It is like a rainbow that demonstrates grace and hope. A Biblical sign from God that reinforces the covenant God gave all people. He blessed us so we can bless others. 

I am writing this entry from both a personal experience as well as a reminder for all of us to act with grace and with generosity. It is both practical and Biblical. It included the highly relational as well as touching our very soul. It brings joy and energy in all we do and say. It is like an energy drink that is infused with vitamin enriching qualities that are also enriching to the soul. It is like a spiritual revival to the soul.

Being generous does something to our physical body as well. In the very act of giving releases something in our brain that like a drug. Studies have shown this to me true. Read this article. 

We are commanded to be people who give more than we take. It is not only a Biblical command to give but also a societal norm. It is called reciprocity; an act that causes others to give as well. We are made to be givers. Check this out! These Truths are timeless! 

Recently someone shares a gift with me. It was a spontaneous act! It showed me something that God needed me to know. It also caused me to have a spirit of giving. It is contagious - like a germ that generates an ongoing impact. It spreads like a germ that can be fatally - compassionate. 

Generous people are thankful people. They find ways to praise God for what He has provided. They see the best in people. They see potential in people and desire to invest in their lives. They choose to enrich people. 

I have been reading lately the book, “I Like Giving” by Brad Formsma. It’s a book filled with stories and practical ideas for how to be generous. In the book, the author says the following:

Living generously is about giving your life to other people so that everything you do – whether it is your work, your charitable giving, or your contribution to your neighborhood – becomes both a gift to others and rewarding yourself.

It is an attitude that always hopes and chooses to believe in people that make them generous. They realize that it is not about themselves! It is about others. 

The benefit to one’s self is the feeling that you get when you help another. With no expectations for a return on investment or treating it as a loan with expectations that someone will return with payment. Generous people see their acts of kindness as simply a gift!