Use of Appropriate Pronouns.

There is much being said about the use of pronouns today. Identifying the correct use of appropriate words that describe people and concepts is highly debated. Today, I want to address the essential use of the correct pronoun. It is essential that the correct pronouns be used to describe the essential element of people and leadership. 

No, this is not an article on the use of pronouns to describe a person’s self-identified language. I am not addressing the use of a politically correct pronoun. It is not an article on how to apply the use of pronouns that people demand be used to address their preferences. Many want their sexual orientation to be properly used when speaking to someone. 

I would only say that those usages are summed up by the pronoun “I”. Almost all self-identified pronouns that are debated today are elements of individuality! It does not, despite the criticism I may receive even stating such a position, identify a community. It is a personal use of self-identifying language that many may say builds community by way of diversity. Yet, all such use of these type of pronouns are self-based, therefore a form of me-ism.

Today’s blog deals with leadership at its basic core. It is neither dictatorial or meant to create hierarchy in organizational structure. The proper use of leadership pronouns does create a unity however. 

The Bible talks about the proper use of pronouns. While this blog entry is not debating whether we should change gender-based language in the scriptures. While many will debate the dominate use of man in the Bible, I contend that this too is a related issue where gender-based interpretation is argued as a form of self-identified use of me-ism. We want the Bible to speak exact language use without any contextual understanding of the original language used.

Inclusion is important when interpreting the Bible. It is a book written to include everyone with the message of the gospel. While this is not a blog entry to debate these arguments often debated in terms of egalitarianism or sexism accusations. I am not debating these points because they too are argued as part of me-ism, no matter how articulate one may be in their point. 

The Apostle Paul is often identified as a sexist. His writings are argued as male dominate focused and therefore sexist! Yet, I don’t find these arguments as without personal bias on the part of those debating these ideas. Therefore, I find them lacking and can be labeled “me” centered; self-centered in nature.

So, that is the point of today’s post? It is a post on the importance of inclusion. It is important to understand that the Bible is meant to be a declaration of the voice of God and the message of the Gospel story; the saving message of God’s love for all. 

When God calls us to faith, it is with the intention of unifying the body of Christ. 

Consider the writings in Thessalonians.

Look at how many times Paul includes his disciples in describing his ministry to the church of Thessalonica:

• "OUR gospel did not come to you in word only, but also in power." (1:5)
• "OUR coming to you was not in vain." (2:1)
• "WE proved to be gentle among you." (2:7)
• "WE were well-pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God, but also OUR own lives." (2:8)
• "WE wanted to come to you." (2:18).
• "But now WE really live, if you stand firm in the Lord." (3:8)
• "For you know what commandments WE gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus." (4:2)
• "WE urge you brethren..." (5:14)
• "Brethren, pray for US!" (5:25)

The use of the pronoun that is inclusive not exclusive is key to understanding the point of scripture. The body of Christ is a unit. While each one must receive the personal means of salvation, the unity of the body is important. 

The use of the proper pronoun is important. It is not I but we and our. Proper use of pronouns matters.  

A Christlike leader doesn't have to be the center of attention. A leader whose ego has been crushed by God doesn't push his own agenda, nor does he crave attention. - J. Lee Grady was editor of Charisma for 11 years before he launched into full-time ministry in 2010.

Much of my thinking here today comes from reading the following article. 

Who Believed in You?

This week (and throughout the year) we have the opportunity to tell a young persona that we believe in them.

I am fortunate since I have had many that believed in me. Youth worker volunteers, pastors, bosses, teachers, and many more have spent time with me. They saw me and heard me. What a great blessing I have experienced! 

My home life, like so many others was not always perfect. I had parents and siblings that I know loved me. They looked out for me. They provided for me. Yes, no family is perfect! I needed some other people in my life to demonstrate their care for me. Teachers and others took time with me and spent their resources on me. I have no complaints.

This week especially I had the opportunity to hear how caring adults can impact the lives of young people. Wow! We can make a difference! Some spend time with young people. Others helped to secure the future for the impact of a caring adult. Youth organizations do this everyday! Businesses committed resources. People sacrificed to provide. Impressive commitments were made!

The organization I serve, Youth for Christ in Northern Indiana is doing ministry with a focus on young people. I get to participate by telling the stories of impact. I get to recruit resources that provide for ministry with young people. My focus is with Campus Life. I get to ask for the partnership of people that provide time, resources, and talents that coordinates with schools and local community organizations to get involved.

I wish I had time to share with you how God surprised us this week in our campaign to empower people to tell a young person that they believe in them. I can’t begin to tell you the many ways that God showed up! Resources that we needed were provided! Our campaign raised over $500,000 in funding that supports youth workers and volunteers that are dedicated to provide ministry and the gospel of Christ to young people!

For now, check out the impact videos and stories we shared. See the financial resources that God provided. Go to: WBIY.org for details. 

Thank you to all that give of your time, talents, and resources. It is true that what we do here today echoes for eternity. It’s not just a movie slogan. God works through people. Whether it’s an investment of your time or your resources, if done for the Lord, and as part of your worship, God blesses it! What we do is for God’s glory. But, it makes a difference in the lives of the next generation of young people that we get to invest in to.

It Is Never Too Late!

“It is never too late,” means that God is able at anytime and always! What a phrase! Have you ever said to someone that you believe in the God of second chances? No matter what, God is always extending His grace to even the most undeserving and seemingly un-reachable. If you have air in your lungs, there is hope!

Hope makes it’s last stand where all seems lost! Hope! You know, we can live without a lot of stuff but we cannot live one day without hope; from no hope to the God of all hope! 

Do you know someone that is seemingly beyond reach? We all know someone like that but today, I want to remind myself and all who each this that God does not give up easily! He gave all that He had through Jesus Christ in order to extend hope, even to the most extreme situations.

I love to end many benedictions with Ephesians 3:20-21:  

20 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, 21 to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.

This verse is so very meaningful. It means that God is able, no matter what! I believe that God can do anything but it also means that we need to bend to His Will. 

After all, we read that the source is God, through Christ! It says according to the power that is Christ in us! Power to change. Power to excel. Power to accomplish. Power to do! The source is found in God’s Will for our lives. 

He can do immeasurably more! Without limit and without the ability to measure is what we discover through Christ! This should shock us at our core! This should rattle our natural assumptions. This should blow our minds! God is not limited.

Yet, let us not forget that while there is purpose, the results are not for ourselves alone! It is for God’s glory that He acts on our behalf. It is not for temporal things. It is not for my gain. It is for God’s glory!

This means that it is not just for this side of heaven! It is for God’s Kingdom sake. It is without limit but for all who would receive it! 

How do you know if someone needs encouragement? Truitt Cathy, Founder of Chick-fil-A said, “If they are still breathing!”  Tell someone that you know a word of encouragement! Take time right now to remind yourself of the only hope we have can be found in Christ. 

 

How God Is Answering My Prayers.

Prayer is fundamental to my faith. Having a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ frames my religion. It’s about having a relationship with a personal God.

God speaks to us in many ways. Foremost, I believe, God speaks to us through the Bible. God‘s Word is filled with principles and promises, that guide our every decision, every action, and throughout each day. God chooses to connect with us. He desires a relationship with us.

I don’t consider God an equal; God is far greater! He is awesome and perfect, holy in every way. It is through Jesus Christ that I have a personal connection with the living God. This relationship is available to anyone who chooses to humbly accept His Grace and build a relationship that begins with prayer. Prayer for salvation begins this redemptive relationship. 

This brings me to my main point. God is answering prayer!

God hears and answers prayer. In my case, there’s been a variety of times that he has answered very specific prayers of mine. Not that I could tell God what to do yet, I believe it’s through the Holy Spirit that pray. God knows the desires of my heart. God knows before I ask him but, I think He loves to hear from us.

God has answered my prayers in very specific ways. 

Sometime I’ll have to share those stories with you one on one, but for now, believe me when I tell you that God has been answering my prayers. 

God has chosen to answer my prayers, because I believe it is according to His Will that I pray. Prayer is simply the alignment of my will with God‘s will. God certainly understands my situation and even during time when I don’t receive a direct answer, He has given me faith and hope to carry-on during the in-between.

I have prayed for others and have received confirmation that what I have prayed is being answered. 

Most recently, I felt the Holy Spirit encourage me to stop by and visit with a pastor. It’s not unusual for me to make cold calls, and to make introductions on behalf of ministry, but in this case, it was a very meaningful experience on a personal level.

My heart was heavy and I sensed that the Lord was encouraging me to seek the encouragement of a minister. Though not a familiar relationship yet, when I walked in I explained how unusual it is for me to ask a stranger to pray with me and join me in my need for myself as well as the need of another person. 

In my prayer, I felt really led me into a particular church. There I met a Pastor and his wife, whom I shared what was most concerning to me. It was ironic and an answer to my prayer. They shared with me that they too experienced the same thing that was heavy on my heart  in their family. Wow! God certainly was leading and it was the encouragement that I needed.

God chooses to answer our prayer, though not in the way we may want yet, in the way that is best suited for each situation. God knows us better than we know ourselves. He knows what the answer needs to be that would draw us into a deeper faith and walk into a relationship with God.

The Bible has much to say about prayer. The point of this article is to not answer the theological truths related to the subject but to remind us that God is indeed interested in answering our prayers. He is able! 

Take time even now to read through your Bible to find passages related to prayer. The following article to be of helped to you from Country Living. 

Prayer is seeking God in all things. It is what builds up our relationship with God. It is what builds up our faith.

Although, God doesn’t answer all of our prayers according to our will, but He does hear and answer prayer according to His Will for our lives. The verse in the Bible that is considered my life verse is from Philippians 1:6. It’s a reminder to me each and every day. The New Living Bible translates it this way: “And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.”

The more that we surrender our will to God’s Will, the more we become aligned with God’s plan. Certainly, we can intercede on behalf of others, but it is God’s work that we must trust. God is able, but we must be willing. As we seek His plan, and those whom we pray for do as well, we discover that God’s plan is always good. It is for God’s Glory that prayers are answered.

God desires to hear from us, and he’s willing to answer our prayers according to His Will. God loves that we are in conversation with him which builds our faith and our walk with Him. Since we live in an imperfect world, we must expect that God is willing to be in the journey with us, as we seek Him.

Devotional: The Power of Persistence.

Galatians 6:9 reminds us to remain diligent. "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." (NIV)

In our journey of faith, we often encounter obstacles, challenges, and setbacks that can easily discourage us. It is during these moments that we must remember the importance of persistence. Persistence is the unwavering commitment to continue pursuing our goals, dreams, and God's calling on our lives, even when faced with adversity. It is the refusal to give up, no matter how difficult the circumstances may be. Failure is never final if we remain persistent. 

When we look at the lives of biblical characters, we find numerous examples of persistence. Noah spent years building the ark, facing ridicule and doubt from others, yet he remained steadfast in his obedience to God. Abraham and Sarah waited patiently for the fulfillment of God's promise of a child, even when it seemed impossible. Moses persisted in leading the Israelites out of Egypt, despite Pharaoh's resistance and the challenges of the wilderness. These individuals teach us that persistence is not only a virtue but also a key ingredient for success in our spiritual journey.

Persistence is not about relying solely on our own strength or willpower. It is about trusting in God's faithfulness and relying on His strength to carry us through. When we face obstacles, it is easy to become discouraged and question whether we are on the right path. However, God calls us to persevere, to press on, and to keep our eyes fixed on Him.

In the book of Galatians, the apostle Paul encourages us not to grow weary in doing good. This verse reminds us that our persistence in following God's commands, serving others, and living a life of righteousness will bear fruit in due time. It may not always be immediate, but God's timing is perfect. He sees our efforts, and He promises that we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

When we face challenges, let us remember that God is with us every step of the way. He is our source of strength, our refuge, and our guide. Through prayer, reading His Word, and seeking His guidance, we can find the strength to persist. God's promises are true, and He will never abandon us.

Today, let us renew our commitment to persist in our faith journey. Let us not be discouraged by setbacks or obstacles but instead be fueled by the hope and assurance that God is faithful. May we find encouragement in the examples of those who have gone before us and trust that our persistence will lead to a harvest of blessings in God's perfect timing.

Consider this simple prayer; 

Heavenly Father, thank You for the reminder of the power of persistence. Help us to remain steadfast in our faith, even when faced with challenges and setbacks. Grant us the strength to press on, knowing that You are with us every step of the way. May we find encouragement in Your promises and trust in Your perfect timing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Top 3 Lessons from the Gilded Age: A Historical Perspective

The Gilded Age, a term coined by Mark Twain, refers to the period in American history from the 1870s to the 1900s. This era was marked by rapid industrialization, urbanization, and economic growth, but it was also characterized by stark social inequalities, political corruption, and labor unrest. Despite its challenges, the Gilded Age offers valuable lessons that remain relevant today. Here are the top three things we learn from this pivotal period in American history. 

The ironic issue was the rapid fall at the end of the Gilded Age. As rapid as the growth is the inevitable fall nearing the end of 1898 which ushered in the era of the Progressive age. See more history here. 

1. The Double-Edged Sword of Rapid Industrialization.

The Gilded Age was a time of unprecedented economic growth and technological innovation. The expansion of the railroad system, the rise of factories, and the discovery of new resources like oil and steel transformed the United States into a leading industrial power. However, this rapid industrialization (we could also substitute technologies here) was a double-edged sword. 

While it created immense wealth for a select few, known as the "robber barons," it also led to severe income inequality and poor working conditions for the majority of the population. Workers often faced long hours, low wages, and hazardous environments, leading to widespread labor unrest and the formation of unions.

Lesson: Rapid industrialization and technological advancement can drive economic growth, but without proper regulations and protections, they can also lead to social inequality and exploitation. As we navigate our own era of rapid technological change, we must ensure that the benefits are equitably distributed and that workers' rights are protected.

2. The Importance of Political Reform

The Gilded Age was notorious for its political corruption. Politicians were often in the pockets of wealthy industrialists, leading to policies that favored big business at the expense of the common people. This era saw the rise of political machines, like Tammany Hall in New York City, which used bribery and voter fraud to maintain power.

However, the corruption of the Gilded Age eventually led to significant political reforms. The Progressive Era that followed was marked by efforts to curb the power of political machines, regulate big business, and expand democratic participation.

Lesson: Political corruption can undermine democracy and social equality. However, public awareness and activism can lead to significant reforms. Today, as we grapple with issues of money in politics and voter suppression, the Gilded Age reminds us of the importance of political integrity and the power of reform movements.

3. The Role of Activism in Social Change

The Gilded Age was not just a time of economic and political challenges; it was also a time of social change. Activists like Ida B. Wells, Susan B. Anthony, and Samuel Gompers fought for civil rights, women's suffrage, and labor rights, respectively. Their efforts laid the groundwork for significant social reforms in the 20th century.

Lesson: Activism plays a crucial role in driving social change. Despite the challenges of the Gilded Age, activists were able to make significant strides in civil rights, women's suffrage, and labor rights. Today, as we continue to fight for social justice, the Gilded Age reminds us of the power of activism and the importance of standing up for our rights.

Let me summarize a bit. The Gilded Age, despite its challenges, offers valuable lessons for today. It reminds us of the potential pitfalls of rapid industrialization (or we could substitute technologies here), the importance of political reform, and the power of activism in driving social change. As we navigate our own era of rapid technological change and social upheaval, these lessons from the Gilded Age can serve as a valuable guide.

What NOT To Say At a Funeral.

Untruths: Assumed Theology! (What NOT to Say at a Funeral.)

 
I have said things at funerals that are not really true. Yep, I knew that what I said was not really true but I was making an effort to be caring and supportive. It was an awkward moment that I know you have experienced as well. Go ahead, admit it, you are like me. 
 
You have said untruths like me, albeit with good intentions. An untruth is something we believe that if we say it long enough, it will be true.
 
I want to talk to you about some of these UNTRUTHS: ASSUMED THEOLOGY. 
My original title was, “What NOT to say at a funeral.”
 
It is not just at funerals that we can espouse untruths. Sometimes we carry these ideas into our lifestyle! 

 A famous one I have heard often and maybe you have said it too is, "God helps those that help themselves."  We think that this is biblical but it in reality it is an untruth; it isn't found anywhere is the Bible. I dare you to try to find it in the scriptures. Did you know that this actually is a theology the is lifted from the Book of the Koran? (13:11 — “Indeed Allah will not change the condition of a population until they change what is in themselves.” — Benjamin Franklin popularized as hell was quoting from Poor Richard’s Almanack of 1736.) 

Other phrases we hear include:
1. Cleanliness is next to godliness.
2. God moves in mysterious ways.
 
Untruths (Assumed Theology) are half-truths at best. These are ideas that we might state that changes the focus from God’s promise to our own will and self-help philosophy. We assume that these are ideas that point to God (Theology). **Yet, we know for sure that we can always share the promises of God in every situation. (I will share more about what God promises later in this message!)
 
Barna Research group’s survey in 2000 found that 75% of Americans and 40% of Christians believe this is a truth found in the Bible. A more recent survey says that 68% of Christians believe this statement is in the Bible.
 
When it comes to funerals, we have the best of motivations. We may have even thought that if we said comforting words that it would help those that are grieving because of incredible loss. We try to bring soothing expressions of love but in reality we are saying things that are not true.
 
Here are a few sayings that I have heard often repeated at funerals but in reality they are untruths. 
 
It will be okay (or even saying that it will get better).
God must have wanted him/her in heaven.
He/She is in a better place.
You will get over it.
God uses all things for good.  
 
God doesn't give us more than we can bear.(You might even be shocked by my mentioning this as a potential “UNTRUTH” if spoken at a funeral... We will look more intently at this phrase later.)
 

Comforting those who are dealing with loss and grief means choosing our words carefully. **Like me, at times, you may be like those who provided counsel to the old testament patriarch Job. — He went through some of the worst times ever and all his friends could do is find ways to blame the problem on Job. They said things like, "God will not give you more than you can bear!”   
 
** I think that Job would have seen otherwise in the midst of his grief. ** — 
 
I have officiated at many funerals. I have been at visitations on plenty more such occasions. I have done funerals for people I have never known. I have grieved as well as I buried good friends and family members. Each of these times I have often wondered what I could say that would be a healing remedy to such a terrible loss. Death is never convenient nor does it come to upon grieving family and friends at the most optimal of settings. It always takes and never does it give! 
 
In reality it isn't our words that make things better but it is our presence that brings comfort. It is in fact God's presence that brings hope and healing. It is in those times of deep despair that we find friendship necessary. We can easily become isolated due to the awkwardness of the moment and forget that just being present is the source of comfort and care. Words can all-to-often get in the way.
 
In a recent article on the pain of Job's loss, I found an answer to my own searching heart.
 
Cheryl Bell offers up a few ideas in a recent article I read on grief. — “Job’s crisis was completely unexpected and utterly incomprehensible.  This blameless and upright man who feared God and shunned evil lost everything; every sheep, camel, ox, and donkey that he owned.  A total of 11,500 animals died along with the servants who kept them.  And as if the loss of these possessions and people were not enough, Job’s seven sons and three daughters died when a mighty windstorm destroyed the house they were in.  All of these events occurred within the span of a single day.  The emotional misery and grief was compounded as Job was stricken with boils from head to toe and his only remaining family member, his wife, urged him to curse God and die. No matter what our circumstances, Job’s tragedy reminds us of a few unshakable truths.”
 
Cheryl continues: “In a crisis, a person’s response is significant. Job’s response was striking.  In the midst of a grief that brought him to his knees, Job worshipped.  This act reveals a heart that was as God described it, upright and God-fearing.  **Job’s words confirmed his deeds when he spoke to his wife saying, "shall we indeed accept good from God and shall we not accept adversity?  In all this Job did not sin with his lips."  (Job 2:10)  - Written by Cheryl Bell -- Learning from Grief, Listening to Job
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I think that being honest is most appropriate but with love and care for those that need comfort is most acceptable. Many times we may feel inclined to share good news in bad times that should demonstrate love and good will toward those in greatest need. Being present is always the right prescription. I call this the ministry of presence in times of trouble. While this is an active ministry, you may feel that you are doing very little to help someone who is dealing with grief and sadness. However, be assured, there is much to be gained by having your simply be present during times of crisis or pain.
 
It was during this time and many other tragic scenarios since that came to understand that it is okay to say, "I don't know."  Perhaps this is the greatest of all temptations to believe that you must have the answers. It is so tempting to be the hero with not only the answers but also the ability to heal the broken. Yet, not having the answers is actually the best way to be because you are being honest and you don't find yourself giving untruths and passive cliches.  
 
There are three perspectives that I believe that we can talk about that is very true. 
 
**As a church, we have been through a lot....that is what has prompted my heart to share.** 
 
These are perspectives that are supported in scripture. I offer these three perspectives so that you can feel a bit of relief as you provide a ministry of presence in times of crisis and pain. I know that these categories have helped me as I minister to people in pain during funerals and visitations or any other type of crisis event that we find ourselves having to give comfort and care.
 
1. HELP Eternal.
 
I really don't know how families go through such heart-ache and pain without knowing the Lord, Jesus Christ??  It is such a tremendous painful experience to lose a loved one, no matter the circumstance.
 
Sometimes we think that we can be comforted by the ideas that someone was aged in years or their illness was long.  In reality, death is not ever comforted by such things.
 
2 Corinthians 4:7-9 New International Version (NIV) reads:
 
7 But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. 8 We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9 persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.
 
The God-breathed passage reminds us that though we suffer, yet in our faith we are not destroyed! Paul, who faced death many times reminds us that there is HELP ETERNAL. 
 
We can bring the truth of God's loving hand into our grieving heart. No matter the suffering, we can find God's presence is with us. Paul testifies to this. We too can tell others that God is not unaware nor is He not concerned. What we see here in our grief is not the end of the story. There is a narrative beyond our pain and suffering.
 
For us today, we need to seek to provide help in times of trouble. It is not what we say that makes the difference, it is being present that does make the difference. We are agents of God's design for help. We need to continue to be the friend and one who continues to care!  We need to stand ready to help!
 
Even as others sink deep into grief, we need to be the ones that offer support and the counsel that helps bring people to the loving care of Jesus Christ. Jesus suffered and is acquainted with our grief.  I recently wrote an article on this subject of depression. As a start, we need to offer support groups and wise counsel to help those who are in a cycle of pain. Consider this article as well: "When You are Feeling BLUE." ~ Believe | Laugh | Understand | Engage again! 
 
Back to the phrase, God will not give you more than you can bear. **It may seem to echo  the passage from 1 Corinthians 10:13b. Yet, it is not in the same context as we might think. You see, the biblical passage is referring to temptation — in part because Paul says that God has provided a way of escape! Our temptations are not fatalism. 
 
**That is to say, oh well, the devil made me do it!** (another untruth!)
 
The difference is that the strength and ability to withstand is the result of GOD, NOT MAN! 
 
As it relates to trouble, Job would have argued this point because he suffered far more than humanly possible to bear. It is a misunderstanding that even Job’s friends might have made. The difference is that in temptation, God provides a way of escape!
 
In trials, as in the case of Job, there was no escape but there was (and is) God’s Grace that is all-sufficient!
 
Recent article: (Quote): “To answer all of that and to give my answer to the question, let’s just look at the key texts that I think he probably has in mind. 1 Corinthians 10:13: "No temptation" -- or test, since it is the same word in Greek -- "has overtaken you that is not common to man. **God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted [tested] beyond your ability [beyond what you are able], but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." **
 
When Paul says that God won’t give what is beyond what you are able, he means not beyond what you are able with God’s help. We know that because of a couple of other things he says. For example, in 2 Corinthians 9:8 he says, "God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that having all sufficiency in all things at all times, you may abound in every good work."
In other words, in every test or temptation, the question is, Will I do what I ought to do? Paul says, "There will be grace." He does not merely say, "I am depending on you to use your resources without depending on grace." Rather, God is telling us, "I am giving you grace so that there will be grace to do it, but you are not independent of my powers to help." - Desiring God article.
 
Temptation & Testing in this context is only related to the issue of sinful desires and SELF-SEEKING disposition! It does mean that WITH GOD we can have victory! 
 
Consider what Russell D Moore meant in his book, “Tempted and Tried”. 
 
Quote: (See page 20) “The temptations themselves are, as scripture puts it, common to man from 1 Corinthians 10:13.… “And in Jesus’ desert testing we see how true this is. Here the scripture identifies for us the universal stages of temptation. You will be tempted exactly as Jesus was because Jesus was being tempted exactly as we are. You will be tempted with consumption, security, and status. You will be tempted to provide for yourself, to protect yourself, and to exalt yourself. And at the core of these three is a common impulse — to cast off the fatherhood of God.” 
 
The bottom line is that we need to offer HELP ETERNAL. At minimum we listen and show patience and care. We too can encourage the grieving to seek help from counselors. We must always offer biblical comfort through the Word  of God. We too need to be agents of God’s help, pointing to eternal truths that God loves us, that Jesus understands our pain, and that while this situation is not fair, God’s mercy is very real!
 
 
2. HOPE Eternal.
 
This leads me to my next point. We might look to it as a source of comfort in times of trial and distress. I call it HOPE ETERNAL. The relationship we have with God, through Jesus Christ is a bedrock of support. Our confidence can be very essential to help someone who is dealing with grief. Instead of saying that it will get better, we need to demonstrate a hope that is beyond ourselves. We need to point to God's eternal hope.
 
Let me break this down for us. We need to be willing to come alongside those that are grieving. We further need to represent the eternal love our God, through Christ. We are God's ambassadors that point to the eternal hope we have in Jesus Christ. We point to the promises of God!! 
 
Recent sign at a church: “FAITH DOESN’T GET YOU OUT OF TROUBLE; it gets you THROUGH trouble! 
 
We can essentially say three things to those that are grieving.
 
1. God loves and cares for you.  He tells us through Peter that we can cast ALL our cares on Him because He cares for us. 
 
(1 Peter 5:7 -- "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." Also: 1 John 4:8b -- "God is love." 
 
2. God is also grieving your loss. He too feels your pain. While we cannot undo the pain we feel, it does mean that he made you a person who feels because you are created in His image. 
 
Isaiah 53:3 -- 
"He was despised and rejected-- a man of sorrows, acquainted with deepest grief. We turned our backs on him and looked the other way. He was despised, and we did not care.")
 
3. God can handle our doubt, questions, and anger.  God is not offended by our feelings of loss. He in fact, whats us to go to Him. 
 
(Proverbs 19:11 (NIV) --"A man's wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense." Also: Psalm 103:8 -- "The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love")
 
While we don't have all the answers and it is okay to say that we just don't know, we can assure those that are grieving that it is not about the answers we have or don't have. It is about walking through pain and being honest with God in our times of doubt and despair.  He wants us to be real and not just fake it.  
 
 
3. HOME Eternal.
 

Not long ago, I did a funeral for my uncle. It was really a wonderful occasion to be with family and to share the simple truth of God's love and His plan for our lives. I believe that God was present in all occasions at the funeral.
 
One of the major theme's I lifted from the Bible is found in John 14. It is perhaps the second most popular passage next to the 23rd Psalm. It is when he told his disciples that he was leaving them and that He was going to prepare a place for them when He comes again. It is a HOME ETERNAL.
 
Funerals & crisis are extraordinary times to share the glorious truth of an eternal home. You may not know where the soul of a stranger may be in eternity but you can share this glorious good news of a HOME ETERNAL with the living!
 
Among the believers, we can celebrate the eternal riches of a home eternal that is promised in scripture!
 
The perspective that Job echoes for us today is one of being faithful NO MATTER the circumstance. It is realizing the eternal destiny of our future home. It is seeing the way God sees it. It is knowing that both good and bad befall every person!
 
Consider the final perspective of Job. See how he remains faithful no matter the trial that came his way! He sees his goal as bring glory to God!
 
Job 19: 25-27 -- "For I know that my Redeemer lives, and that in the end he will stand upon the earth. And after my skin has been destroyed, yet in my flesh I will see God; I myself will see him with my own eyes."
 
Study some passages that remind people of God's incredible promises. There are well over 3,000 promises that we can count on. Consider picking up a copy of the book by Clint Byers, "God Says Yes To Over 3,000 Promises.
 
So, INSTEAD OF SPEAKING UNTRUTHS — ASSUMED THEOLOGY, offer His Word!! 
 
**Write down some of God’s promises you have memorized!! ** 

 

In conclusion, it is important to remember that our words, especially during sensitive times such as funerals, carry weight. We must be careful not to propagate untruths, even with the best of intentions. Instead, we should focus on providing comfort through our presence and pointing towards the eternal truths found in scripture. 

We should refrain from using clichés and assumed theology that may not be biblically accurate or helpful to the grieving. Instead, we should offer the ministry of presence, being there for those in pain, and pointing them towards the eternal help, hope, and home that is found in God. 

We should remember that it is okay to admit that we do not have all the answers. In fact, honesty in such situations can be more comforting than offering platitudes. We should also remember that God can handle our doubts, questions, and anger. He wants us to be real with Him, even in our times of grief and despair.

In times of loss, we should focus on the promises of God. We should remind those who are grieving of God's love and care for them, His understanding of their pain, and His promise of an eternal home. 

In the end, it is not about having all the answers or saying the right things. It is about being there for those who are grieving, offering comfort through our presence, and pointing them towards the eternal truths found in God. It is about offering help, hope, and a glimpse of the eternal home that awaits us all. 

So, let us be mindful of our words, especially during sensitive times such as funerals. Let us refrain from propagating untruths and instead focus on providing comfort through our presence and pointing towards the eternal truths found in scripture. Let us be agents of God's love, offering help, hope, and a glimpse of the eternal home that awaits us all.

The Wind Of Change, Unleashed!

In a world that is rapidly changing, where moral decline and Christian persecution are increasingly prevalent, we find solace and hope in the testimony of God's Spirit. This testimony is akin to the changing of a season, a powerful force that brings about transformation and renewal. This concept is beautifully encapsulated in the celebration of Pentecost Sunday, an event that marks the unleashing of God's Spirit upon the world into every believer.

The event of Pentecost, as described in the Acts of the Apostles, signifies the physical outpouring of God's promised event. It is characterized by a "mighty rushing wind," a symbol for the Holy Spirit, and "tongues as of fire." The disciples gathered were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other tongues as the Spirit gave them utterance. This mighty rushing wind is a physical manifestation of God's promised event, a testament to the transformative power of the Holy Spirit.

This wind of change is also reflected in the teachings of Jesus, particularly in his conversation with Nicodemus. In this dialogue, Jesus speaks of a spiritual rebirth, of being born again in the Spirit. The Greek word 'pneuma' means both wind and Spirit, illustrating the invisible and mysterious work of the Spirit, much like the blowing of the wind. This spiritual rebirth is a transformative process, a change that brings about a new life in the Spirit.

In these changing times, we are experiencing the winds of change. However, the testimony of God's Spirit, like the changing of a season, offers us hope. As we approach the summer solstice, we are reminded of the transformative power of God's Spirit. Just as summer brings longer stretches of dry weather and pop-up storms, the Spirit brings about change in our lives, challenging us, yet also offering us hope and renewal.

The story of Nicodemus and being born of the Spirit is a powerful reminder of what it means to be born again in the Spirit. As we reflect upon the season of Pentecost, we are reminded of the three significant actions of the Spirit as summarized through the testimony of Nicodemus: giving, saving, and judging. These actions are the winds of change that we too can experience, offering us hope in the midst of a changing world.

God's Spirit gives generously, as exemplified by the gift of His only Son. This act of giving is a testament to God's benevolence and love for humanity. The Spirit also saves, offering salvation to those who believe in Christ. This act of saving is a testament to God's mercy and grace, a beacon of hope for those lost in the darkness. Lastly, the Spirit judges, not to condemn, but to offer mercy. This act of judging is a testament to God's righteousness and justice, a reminder that God's love is not without accountability.

In a world that is increasingly dark and confusing, the testimony of God's Spirit offers a beacon of hope. The winds of change may be blowing, but the Spirit of God remains constant, offering us hope, renewal, and transformation. As we navigate these changing times, let us remember the teachings of Jesus and the testimony of Nicodemus. Let us embrace the winds of change, not with fear, but with faith in the transformative power of God's Spirit. Let us be born again in the Spirit, allowing the winds of change to guide us towards a life of faith, hope, and love.

The Purpose of Persistence.

The parable of the Persistent Widow, as told in Luke 18:1-8, is a powerful illustration of the importance of persistent prayer and faith in God's justice. It tells the story of a widow who persistently sought justice from an unjust judge. Despite his lack of fear for God or respect for people, the judge eventually granted her request, worn down by her relentless pleas. Jesus used this story to teach His disciples a valuable lesson about prayer and faith.

The parable reminds us that we must trust in God's timing and sovereignty. It is easy to become impatient when things are not happening according to our desired timelines or outcomes. However, the story of the Persistent Widow encourages us to persist in prayer, to continually bring our requests before God, and to trust in His justice.

The parable also highlights the character of God. Unlike the unjust judge, God is righteous, loving, and merciful. He hears the cries of His children and is moved by their pleas. Jesus assures us, "Will not God bring about justice for his chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night?" This is a powerful reminder of God's character. He is not an indifferent judge but a loving Father who cares deeply for His children.

Finally, Jesus challenges us to remain faithful. He ends the parable with a question, "However, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on the earth?" This is a call to steadfast faith, even in the face of delay or difficulty. It is a reminder that our faith is not based on immediate answers but on the unchanging character of God.

The parable of the Persistent Widow teaches us to persist in prayer, trust in God's justice, and remain steadfast in faith. It encourages us to approach God with boldness and persistence, assured of His love and justice. It challenges us to remain faithful, even when the answers are delayed or the path is difficult.

In conclusion, the Parable of the Persistent Widow teaches us to persist in prayer, trust in God's justice, and remain steadfast in faith. It encourages us to approach God with boldness and persistence, assured of His love and justice. It challenges us to remain faithful, even when the answers are delayed or the path is difficult.

Let us, therefore, be like the persistent widow, continually bringing our requests before God, trusting in His justice, and remaining steadfast in faith. Let us remember that our God is not an unjust judge, but a loving Father who hears our cries and cares for us deeply. 

And when the Son of Man comes, may He find us faithful, persistent in prayer, and trusting in His justice.

May God bless us with the spirit of persistent prayer, unwavering faith, and deep trust in His justice. 

I published new episode:The Purpose of Persistence (in prayer). Luke 18:1-8, please check it out.

It Is Too Easy To Forget Therefore, Let Us….

In the fast-paced world we live in, it's all too easy to forget. We forget grocery lists, names, and even the promises we make to ourselves. But there's one thing we should never forget: God's unwavering faithfulness. 

Consider the story of an elderly couple. The wife, craving an ice cream sundae late at night, repeatedly implores her husband to write down her detailed order. Despite his assurances that he'll remember, he returns with a hamburger, much to her dismay. This humorous anecdote serves as a poignant reminder of the fallibility of human memory. 

The husband's repeated assurances that he'll remember, and his ultimate failure to do so, highlight our human tendency to forget. Research shows that memory is time-based, with approximately 56% of information forgotten within an hour, 66% after a day, and 75% after six days. Our brains, while capable of impressive feats, have a limited capacity to store and recall details. 

Yet, while we may forget, God never does. Deuteronomy 31:6 reassures us, "So be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid and do not panic before them. For the LORD your God will personally go ahead of you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you.” This verse serves as a comforting reminder of God's faithfulness and His enduring presence in our lives.

In a world rife with distractions, it's crucial to remember God's faithfulness. His love endures forever, even when our memories falter. We can become distracted and focus on the wrong things from time to time, but God's grace is always available to us. 

The story of the elderly couple also underscores the importance of writing things down. Just as the wife insisted her husband jot down her sundae order, we too should write down God's promises. By doing so, we can meditate on His words and seek His guidance in our daily lives. 

Writing things down physically, through application, and by including God in all our actions can help us remember. When we write down scriptures and paste them around where we can see them, we are constantly reminded of God's promises. 

Despite our forgetfulness, God's grace is abundant. Our tendency to focus on the wrong things and become distracted does not diminish His love for us. The reassurance that God's love endures forever is a comforting thought in times of crisis or stressful situations. 

The irony of needing more grace when we forget is not lost on us. We receive more grace when we tend to forget, and God's grace sustains us even in those times when we forget. He fills the gaps of our absentmindedness and carries us even when we forget.

In conclusion, let us remember God's faithfulness and His enduring love. Let us write down His promises, meditate on His words, and seek His guidance. Despite our forgetfulness, His grace is always available to us. 

As we navigate through life, let us remember the story of the elderly couple and the lesson it teaches us about remembering God's faithfulness. In a world where memories fail and distractions abound, we must hold on to the promises of God and trust in His unwavering love. 

So, let us not forget, but rather, let us remember. Let us remember God's faithfulness, His promises, and His enduring love. Let us write down His words, meditate on His promises, and seek His guidance in our daily lives. May we never forget that God is faithful, and His grace is always available to us.

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Making Accommodation.

If you’ve ever traveled or stayed overnight in a hotel, you’ll understand what it is to have accommodations made to suit your needs. Hotels will do this by providing special accommodations or services for your children by providing something unique that might make you feel more comfortable.

This is not necessarily an article defending the practice of making accommodations. In the area of hospitality, it’s important for your guest to feel comfortable, and as a host, you want to provide something unique or special. This is actually a good thing.

In just about every field of practice, whether medical or hospitality, or even what the government may provide, for those were special needs, and it’s a good thing to take action in appropriate ways for someone’s needs.

In a spiritual way, God has made special accommodations for us. However, these accommodations have come with the cost.

Spiritually, to be saved from our sins God provided a sacrifice for those sins through his son, Jesus Christ. In this, it enables us to have a connection with God, because the sin that has separated our relationship with Him has been bridged. Jesus declares us righteous because of grace and the sufficiency of his shed blood. We are righteous, not in ourselves, but through Christ Jesus. Special accommodations are therefore a possible. Scripture is filled with promises and actions in examples of this. 

Abraham wanted special accommodations for his nephew lot and his family. He pleaded with God to save the city if they could find it just a few righteous ones. None were found so God made special accommodations by saving his nephew and daughters. 

Accommodations were made for Mary in the birth of, our savior. Though humble as they were, the Inn Keeper, having compassion and room for the son of God to be born. 

And you and I are given special accommodations, and a promise of heaven for those who walk in obedience and write relationship with God through Jesus Christ.

These are considered privileges and not rights. In the day and age of which we live, where everybody is attempting to flex their  Perceived rights, it confuses the matter. We too often place demands where we have no right to declare such actions. Even in our desire to demand certain privileges, we change the relationship from transformational to simple transaction.

We may not be satisfied with the gift given and ask for an exchange receipt. Some made declare that even the privilege that they have been given is not enough. Brothers may demand that right by taking it away from another person or people group.

1 Peter 4:10 says that everyone has been given a gift. (That includes you, too.)
“As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace.” 

Having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ is a gift that we could not earn, nor could we afford to buy. A blessing that God gives us in big and small ways are only afforded by God‘s grace. A price is paid to make these special accommodations.

The next time you’re treated more special than you deserve,  Consider it a gift. In fact, work to make special accommodations in the lives of others in order to be a positive witness for Christ. Showing God‘s love to another because you can. Perhaps giving to someone even though they would never be able to afford to pay you back . 

The Enduring Impact of Today's Actions

In the vast tapestry of existence, our actions possess a profound ability to transcend time and space. The quote, "What we do here today echoes for eternity," encapsulates the truth that our choices, words, and deeds have a lasting impact. This concept reminds us of the significance of our actions and the potential they hold to shape the course of our lives and the lives of others.

Every action we take, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant, has the power to create a ripple effect that extends far beyond the present moment. A kind word spoken today can uplift someone's spirit and inspire them to pass on that kindness to others. A selfless act of service can ignite a chain reaction of compassion and generosity. Conversely, a hurtful word or a thoughtless action can leave scars that linger for a lifetime.

Our actions not only shape our immediate surroundings but also contribute to the collective consciousness of humanity. They become part of the tapestry of human history, influencing future generations and leaving an indelible mark on the world. Just as the echoes of a sound reverberate through space, our actions reverberate through time, resonating in the hearts and minds of those who come after us.

Let us embrace the profound truth that "What we do here today echoes for eternity." Similar to the words, spoken by actor, Russell Crowe playing the part of Maximus. As he motivated his followers, stating similarly, “What we do in life…“

May we be mindful of the impact our actions can have and strive to make choices that reflect love, kindness, and compassion. By doing so, we contribute to a legacy that transcends our own existence, leaving a positive imprint on the world that will echo throughout eternity.