Saturday, January 29, 2022

Just One Hour Can Be Transformational.

I remember my teen years. They were super awkward! I also remember how the church cared about me. It was through my local youth group we called Teen Club, where our mentors would spend time each week listening and showing us the truth of God’s Word applied to life. This was more than just a weekly opportunity to get out of the house. This was one hour that transformed my life.

In my teen years, not that unusual from many others that age, it was not easy. Life was awkward and there were many negative influences. My peers, though they were not criminals, were not always the best influence. I have, yet this day some of the best friends from my teen years.

That one hour in Teen Club was both fun and practical because  we played lots of games and we would study the Bible. It was a place where I could go and share my disappointments and ask my difficult questions. I am sure that our adult mentors saw their role as investing in others that would yield eternal results. 

There were three guiding principles that they tried to teach me:  Honesty. Truth. Faith.

It was through mentors and group interactions that I learned to be honest.

It was through practical teachings from The Living Bible that I learned to know God.

It was through prayer that I learned to develop faith.

Those three guiding values are always included in any of my interactions with youth.

Later in my life I became a mentor for youth. Many of those or opportunities to impact a teen and influence of the ways of God.  My hope is that I taught them to be honest and that I gave practical teaching about God and increased their faith through prayer.

When I was a youth pastor, I had that opportunity to bring other positive adults to the youth group to influence the lives of teenagers. I tried to pass on some of the things that I learned from the sponsors of my useth group growing up in emulate those values in the lives of teens.

When I was a mentor to at-risk youth, those that were on the borderline of police intervention I was able to help them be honest and then advocate for them with police and court authorities.

When I was a probation officer, I was able to spend time with youth when they would make poor choices causing them to have court intervention.

I would teach them to be honest and model integrity.

I would help them to understand what the Bible has to say about their life and their understanding of God.

I would also encourage them to pray, the alignment of their will with gods will in order to find God’s best for them and to teach them faith.

Saturday, January 22, 2022

Prayer is….

 I love to be part of prayer groups! I have witnessed (in my spirit) the incredible impact of prayer.

It is said that prayer is the alignment of my will with God’s Will. How do we find God’s Will? It is through speaking with God and listening to His voice. Holy Spirit is how God has chosen to interact with us! 

What dreams do you have? How has God shaped those dreams? We know that many shall have vision to see the Hand of God in their lives! How about you?

Jesus is interceding for us, taking our prayer to Father-God! This in itself is incredible! We don’t deserve this incredible act of love in Christ. Yet, God has chosen to not remain silent and distant! 

We can come to God for several reasons. These are gifts to us! 

Asking for HEALING! 

Without God we are forever lost. Our lost world needs a healing! Our bodies and world is broken apart from God. Therefore we need God to heal our land! 

There are many promised God gives us! One such is that of revival to include healing! IF my people humble ourselves and call on the Lord, He will heal our land. 

New Living Translation
Then if my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sins and restore their land. 2 Chronicles 7:14.

Take time to pray for HEALING! 


Seeking God’s GOODNESS! 

Worry is what robs us of the hope we can have in Christ! It is like taking yesterday’s burdens into tomorrow. 

Yet, we don’t have to bear those burdens alone! God will help us. 

God is good…. We know that His goodness is a blessing that all benefit from. Life itself is how we see His goodness. Jesus said that He has prepared a place for us! In John 14 we can find the hope of eternal life. This is our destination as we walk with God in Christ! 

New Living Translation
Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me. John 14:6

Even now, as you walk with God, what is He saying to you? 


Looking to God for help as we endure the TEST of each testimony. 

In this world we will have trouble! Is is aa if this is guaranteed. Life comes with no warranty. Yet, Jesus said that He will be with us! How have you experienced this truth for yourself?

Life is a test. In fact, our testimony begins with a TEST. The story may be different for everyone but the source of our strength and help is the same for each testimony. The Glory is the Lord’s. Without God, our efforts are futile. 

What test has God brought you through? Big or little, God is in the details! 

God, Who can part the waters… 

Calm the storms… 

Care for the afflicted… 

Lift up the oppressed… 

Protect the vulnerable…

This God is with you! Pray. Seek. Listen. Hole is in the calm and stillness (not just in the storm.)

Write down several ways that God has brought you through. Make notes on the simple and complex ways He has been faithful. Also write down the unanswered prayers and concerns, even now taking these to the Lord. 

Friday, January 14, 2022

Three Vital Relationships

No one is an island. Any one of our actions makes an impact both positive and negative. Everybody needs somebody who can bring balance and perspective in their lives.

Today I want to focus on three relationships that are vital if we want to maintain a healthy attitude filled with humility in our lives. As we interact with others it is important that we recognize that we need help or support along the way.

No matter the age, young or not-so old, it’s important that we have three types of relationships if we’re going to be successful and relevant. You might say that these are mentoring relationships. In biblical terms, we might call these the Paul, Barnabas, and Timothy's in our lives. Mental health specialist will tell us that it will be important to bring balance so that we do not develop narcissism or isolation.

1. Mentoring someone younger. Each of us have an opportunity to help others in their journey in life. It’s important that we invest ourselves into someone else. Not only keeps us relevant but challenges our way of thinking. Mentor relationships often are those that are vulnerable or at risk youth that need guidance in their lives. I like to think of it as each of us need to be willing to mentor someone who is much younger than ourselves.

I need to be a gap in age in order to have an effective mentoring process. A teenager being mentored by a young adult I even middle aged is very helpful. It is that life experience that can be taught and modeled as well as a grasp on humility and integrity that could be passed on to another generation. 

We might think of this as Paul and Timothy. In biblical terms Paul was an elder giving insight to a younger leader in a related field like pastoring or even business. Every profession needs these type of relationships. 

2. The second relationship is that of a peer, someone close to your age. It’s always a good idea to have an individual that can relate to those things that you are tempted by or trying to seek an understanding with. This is somebody who is of your generation.

A person that is within your generation will understand the times of which we live. But more important is a person that can understand your Temptations and needs. This might be someone who is a part of your social group yet they are someone willing to be honest with you about things they may see you are in need of.

Are you might think of this as someone like Paul and Barnabas. They are someone of equal status in life and perhaps from a similar background and profession. Barnabas was known for being a person who is an encourager but is also someone willing to be confrontational when necessary. Nevertheless, this is someone that can equip you in real time and help sort through related issues. 

3. Choosing an older mentor. The third is necessary the many don’t understand how to develop this kind of a relationship. Let me try to illustrate a little bit. I am midway in my years of life. For the last 25 years or so I have had a friend in my life who is actually 25 years older than myself. This is a senior counsel to me, a mentor that I’m willing to bring insights and suggestions as well as someone I could ask the tough questions. 

I’d like to think of this as the perspective of Timothy with Paul. You see, Timothy was a young man who has been mentored by Paul in his aging years. Timothy was just at the beginning of his ministry while Paul was nearing the end. The amount of advice being offered in this exchange allowed Timothy to further develop and grow in his profession and ministry.

Each of these three relationships are vital if we are going to maintain humility and find success. If we are going to grow and develop professionally and spiritually, these three relationships are very helpful. It requires that we be intentional and building these three relationships indoor lives.

For those who mentor younger people we are able to stay in touch with relevant issues of a next generation. For those days those relationships that are equal to us both in age and profession, it helps to have someone call us out when needed and someone we could talk to about life disappointments and temptations. It is someone who can be honest with us. The third relationship with someone that we choose that is much older than ourselves. It is a senior advisor, one who has greater life experience that our own.

These three relationships create the three strands that are not easily broken as talked about in Proverbs. They build strength as they are interwoven into the fabric of our life. Leave one of these out weekends who we are. The intent is to help us be strong as we carry the load of living in a complex world.

Sunday, January 09, 2022

Revival Is Not A Pep-Rally

John Wesley taught that, “GOD does nothing except in response to believing prayer.” Prayer is the very basis for revival and it has few beginnings apart from prayer. Revival is not a pep rally but a sincere act of faith through prayer! 

Evidenced by what GOD has done in the past we find that the movement of the Holy Spirit is ushered in by the believer praying. The power is the Lord’s but the quickening and awakening of the heart is done in us. 

Reminders and prompting to pray is refreshing as we see and hear the body of believer, without an agenda, in prayer. 

Is GOD preparing His church to be readied for revival? Indeed it is His pleasure. Yet, believers must respond to the promptings of God through His Holy Spirit. 

Promptings in prayer include a ready heart. It also includes convicting desire to pray! Perhaps have starts with a remnant that prayers with persistence. It is a work that meets with an obedience to pray. 

Tonight we were challenged to prayer through a 21-Day commitment. Jim Lo encouraged everyone to wait in the Lord and prepare our hearts. Mark Gorveatte, District Superintendent along with others encouraged us to pray for the lost, those in our communities that need the Lord. Chris Williams challenged us to be salt & light as we live & work in communities!  

What does revival look like? I think of the many examples we can find in the Bible when GOD moved and people responded. In the Old Testament we find examples of mighty expressions of His Hand at work for those who follow GOD! In the New Testament we find example during the earthly ministry of Jesus as well as the Acts of the Holy Spirit all throughout each book of the Bible. In History we find unity in prayer that transformed communities (big and small) and nations (of all kinds). 

I also find that one incredible passage says that when GOD moves, young men and women will have visions and those who are old will dream again! It is the prompting of the Lord that causes His people to be renewed! 

Joel 2:28-29:: 

“It will come about after this That I will pour out My Spirit on all mankind; And your sons and daughters will prophesy, Your old men will dream dreams, Your young men will see visions “Even on the male and female servants I will pour out My Spirit in those days”

Revival is not piety but passion to hear from GOD. It is pleading and persistent. It is not a religious act but a genuine heart-felt expression and response from GOD. 

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These are a few notes gathers as the Crossroads District met to pray for revival with the 21 Days of Prayer emphasis. Several churches gathered on this date to pray!


Saturday, January 08, 2022

Do-Over!

Have you ever said or done something you wish you could take back or have a “do-over?” I have had plenty of those times that I wish I could ”do-over”. Whether words or actions, I wish I could turn back the clock.

Many times we are unaware of the words or actions that can distant relationships. It’s only when things get up that becomes more difficult and critical. Perhaps it’s something we say that we meant to be humorous and it turned out to be insulting. 

I’ve had plenty of those times when I said to a complete stranger something turned out to be in bad taste. My classic one-liners are simple phrases that I use often. The intent is to be lighthearted occasionally it hits a person in the wrong way.

Sometimes I’ll use words that have double meanings. I may say that I am “fed up”. Most think that it is a criticism in a negative statement. To which I often will correct him to say, No, I mean I am full.” And just like that I turn a phrase with an effort to find humor with a complete stranger.

Thankfully, God’s grace covers a multitudes of sin. A sincere apology goes a long way! As the New Year begins, resolve to give grace to others & guard against needing a “do-over!” Romans 6:23 reminds us that we all have sinned and we have fallen short but God, his grace is sufficient will cover a multitude of sin.

Remaining humble is the antidote to pride. When we recognize that we have done something that may have offended another, a simple, yet genuine apology goes along way. Instead of holding our ground and expecting someone else to get over it, we should work at mending relationships as best we can. Since Grace has been extended to Wes without condition from God, I have every good reason to encourage others.

What regrets do you have? How can you give these to God & receive His grace?

Rev. Rick E. Carder - (RickeCarder.com)

Wednesday, December 29, 2021

Most Often Used Word of 2021

The most often used word of 2021 is vaccine. It is the news daily. The vaccine enters our blood to produce antibodies. While it may cause many debates, one vaccine is certain to bring hope, through the blood of Christ.

While I am certainly no scientist I do you understand some basic biology. The remedy to virus can be found in blood. It is a good blood of another that produces antibodies that attack the infected cell causing widespread illness throughout the body. The result of a vaccine is to cause the body to create these remedies to heal and strengthen the cell.

One thing a certain that fear has gripped the world because of this pandemic. Also often it is the past that contributes to depression. Also, it is the future that leads to worry. Yet, it is in the present that we can find peace. There are many things that we don’t know what in the midst of that we can cling to the truth of God’s Word.

In the 1950’s, Vincent Price played the part of a man who survived a global pandemic. It was an outbreak that infected everyone including his wife and child. He became known as Legend because he alone was not affected by the illness. Unbeknownst to others, he possessed the remedy for all of those infected with the illness. 

It was in His blood where the remedy could have saved countless others. The movie came to a tragic end for not only the main character but also the human race. More recent variation of the movie, “I Am Legend“ starring Will Smith picks up on the theme in a modern day drama. 

It’s easy to draw a parallel between those movies and this virus but we would clearly missed the point if we did not talk about the blood of Jesus which can cleanse us from our own unrighteousness, our sin that easily produces a spiritual sickness that leads to death.

We all suffer from the results of sincommon to allConfidently we can promote the cure; it is in Jesus Christ. Hisdeath & resurrection means new life for us in Christ! (John 3:16-17)

 

How does it feel to enter into 2022 knowing that Jesus is the cure for sin?


Sunday, December 26, 2021

Making Room for Christ

God came to us in humble means! Jesus is  “God with us” which means He was Incarnate. It means, “to embody in flesh; invest with a bodily form.” From the Latin word incarnāre “to make into flesh.”


I like what Dutch Sheets wrote: 

“Have you ever wondered what was going through Christ’s mind before Holy Spirit transformed Him into a microscopic seed and carried Him to the womb of a young girl? He was about to become breakable. Did He wonder how it would feel to no longer be omnipresent? Omniscient? Omnipotent? Did He wonder how physical pain would feel? Hunger? Thirst? Weariness? Cold? Heartache? Loss?”


Christ knew He would have to: fight His way through a birth canal, be fed, be bathed, learn to crawl, develop balance and walking skills, form words, grow, gain knowledge. He would experience sleep, scrapes, blisters, callouses. He would enter the realm of time. He would bleed.”— Dutch Sheets (Give Him 15)


God knew how needy were are! He knew that a savior was needed!! 


He came to those in-need….. 


Did you know that there are over 400,000 children and youth in need of a home nationally.


There are over 13,000 children/youth in out-of-home placement just in Indiana.

  • Our text today:: Takes us to a small village in humble circumstances — Bethlehem (which means Bread…) The origins are of humble beginnings (Smallest tribe of Benjamin). The community of shepherds (home of a shepherd, King David…) 

It is the Christmas story….


Luke 2:6-7 (NLB)

“And while they were there, the time came for her baby to be born. She gave birth to her firstborn son. She wrapped him snugly in strips of cloth and laid him in a manger, because there was no lodging available for them.”

Other translations read: “no room”.


The biggest questions for me this year is: Why was there no room for Jesus?

  • Prophecy:


How is it that those in Bethlehem would not have realized, especially in the messianic age…. How did they not anticipate His coming? 


Perhaps it’s because they looked for a King or a person of royal means… or one of wealth and prestige? 


Many passages revealed the place and the provision of which he would be born. His status and station in life would’ve been obvious … just a short journey from Nazareth in our modern day but a trip that would’ve taken several days by donkey.. (90 miles)


Isaiah 53, which says that the Messiah would be “despised and rejected by men….


“Some scholars believe there are more than 300 prophecies about Jesus in the Old Testament. These prophecies are specific enough that the mathematical probability of Jesus fulfilling even a handful of them, let alone all of them, is staggeringly improbable—if not impossible.” Jesus Film Project.


"'But you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah,
    are by no means least among the rulers of Judah;
for out of you will come a ruler
    who will shepherd my people Israel.'" (Matthew 2:4–6).


55 Old Testament Prophecies about Jesus | Jesus Film Project


Bottom line: They we’re not looking for The Messiah. They were too busy to stop, look, listen! 

  • Understanding vulnerability (Those most often overlooked.):


— ** What is the most often overlooked people group? —


The least! The last! The lost! (Most vulnerable.)


Most do not know what it is to be poor — really poor to the point of having nothing.


Most don’t know what it is to be rejected - really rejected to the point it despised.


**Our Savior knew what it was like to be both poor and rejected. 


**For those that experience these negative realities, there is a savior who understands. 


Russ Whitten…. Writes:


“I believe there was no room in the inn so that even from the beginning of his life, Jesus could completely identify with the underprivileged, vulnerable, oppressed, rejects, outcasts and poor.

When God became one of us, he demanded none of the world’s comforts, luxuries or protections. God knew that throughout history, there would be homeless people from every part of the world, trying to stay warm at night, who would look up at the stars and say in their heart, **”God, you have no idea what I’m going through!” To this, Jesus could honestly say, “Actually, I know exactly what you’re going through.”


2 Corinthians 8:9 says this: “Though he was very rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that by his poverty he could make you rich.” 


Max Lucado said it this way: “The mother and father of our Lord were pushed out and rejected. Even before he was born, our Lord was rejected and turned away. The words ‘no room for you’ followed him throughout his life … There was just no room for him anywhere. 


https://www.thedestinlog.com/story/lifestyle/2020/12/19/have-you-wondered-why-there-no-room-inn/3923157001/


What of this family? 

  • He came to family.


Perhaps one of the most important aspects of the birth of Christ is that in all the ways of which God could have come to us, God Emmanuel, He came to A FAMILY. 


This family journeyed 90 miles —- pregnant and trying to find rest….for the birth of the child that would “deliver” Mary and also for us all. 


He came to enrich the lives within a family but also to our family as well.


For Caesar Augustus decreed that all should be registered as family. It was his way of taxing the people. In this family, the first family of royalty would also be registered as a family.


It’s hard to Imagine that Jesus had siblings. We know that he does and it’s believe that even the book of James was a brother to Jesus. But nevertheless it is a family of which he is born into but not of… Because he is born of God through Mary. But resides within a family is essential to the story.


For you see the reason why there was no room in the inn was not because they were full —- a guest room, the “family” room of this Inn was already occupied and it was of no use to them in the birthing of a newborn.     (The word used here in this passage that there was no room for him in the Inn is a word to describe not a bedroom but the main room of the house. There was no room because it was a busy time in Bethlehem. The place was a buzz with activity and many were there to be registered.)


David Hauschuild writes on this:

“Luke, the only Gospel writer who provides an extensive nativity narrative, was concerned about precision in what he wrote. We know this because he said as much so very clearly (Luke 1:3). So if Luke strove for accuracy, it stands to reason that his readers should try to understand exactly what he intended.”


“Luke wrote that there was no space in the “katáluma.” That Greek word is usually understood as a “guest room” in a house. Luke used “katáluma” in that exact sense later on (22:11) in reference to the “guest room” where the Last Supper would be observed.”

Because there was no room in the inn


The provisions of our Lord were not in the main room but in a back room were sheep and cattle and even the donkey that carried Mary would reside. He was born in a stable.


Here there was not a hospital or a clinic that they could go to but instead they were given another place where provisions had to be especially prepared.


For this royalty, a king Jesus was not born in a palace where they were servants and wealth and provisions but it was a makeshift birthing ward a maternity ward in a stable. 


This was in-keeping with prophecy but also in keeping with the reality that a lamb was used for the remission of sin. 


Do you see the connection? 


The shepherds recognized it because they cared for the lamb that was to be slain and they were the first to hear of this news. Likely they came with provisions of understanding how to care for a lamb. But, they were the least of those who heard the news of royalty. Yet, they were the first notified! 


You see this Jesus was to become the lamb, the shed blood for our sin. It is fitting that he would be born in a stable wrapped in strips of cloth and lying in a manger just as they would the sacrificial lamb. He the shepherds would wrap the precious lamb in strips of cloth keeping it from injury so that it could be presented without blemish for the days of sacrifice.


Within this family, born in the most vulnerable of means. This child is given in the family was to protect this child in its vulnerability. Yes, God Emmanuel what is to be protected by the family!


An application: There’s no question why the family is under attack today… The very definition of family in the responsibilities of parenting are being challenged by the evil one. The family is God’s creation.


Furthermore, we can realize that his birth had significance not only in its vulnerabilities but also in the care in provision of a family.


Application: IF we are critical of the Inn Keeper for not making room for this family, we need to ask; “Why don’t we make room for Jesus in our family?”


You may say, IF I were the inn keeper, I would have … Made roomThrow someone else outClear out a storage room? Or say, “Someone else will provide?”


Matthew 25… “…for as you did unto the least of these, you did unto me.”

(Matthew 25:35-40)


Making room for Jesus requires … 


  • Being inconvenienced.
  • Changing our priorities.
  • Clearing out the storage room.
  • Making other arrangements.
  • Caring for another in need.



It is interesting that though the first family that cradled the savior as a baby could not find a place to lodge like many others finding lodging in the Inns and with family…. 


This family welcomed many who came unannounced!! 


For you see our lesson today is in making room for Jesus. 


Without a doubt many homes are filled with more stuff crowding out the space needed for Jesus; the least, the last, the lost! 


Three closing questions:

  1. Who is beneath you? 
  2. Who is behind you? 
  3. Who is just beyond your vision?


Dutch Sheets writes (Give Him 15 podcast.)


“We will never truly understand the ramifications, intricacies and complexities of the incarnation. Merging the limitations of “humanness” with an infinite God simply can’t be computed by human brains. Indeed, Paul referenced Christ as God’s “indescribable gift” (2 Corinthians 9:15). But it is healthy to ponder it, nonetheless. We must, in fact. It is imperative that we consider the cost to Christ. It’s essential that we wonder at such love, marvel at the plan and stand in awe at its audacity.” - Dutch Sheets podcast. https://www.givehim15.com/post/december-24-2021


As you see… Even the day after Christmas is still yet to be considered of the Majesty and glory spilled over to the next day and days to follow….the announcement of the Angels….the visitation of the shepherds …. and the visitation of the magi.

Tuesday, December 21, 2021

To Ponder.

I often have a curious mind, pondering about what tomorrow holds. It is uncertain yet filled with anticipated hope. While we can’t cash in on tomorrow we can invest today, curiously interested in its outcomes.  

One of the seasonal volunteer activities that I do each year is to ring the bell for the Salvation Army. I enjoy knowing that my time is not wasted and I can see tangible evidence of my activity. As people make annual donations, I can track those donations and know that my time has been well spent. 


Ringing the bell also gives me plenty of time to think, to ponder on next year‘s goals. I often reflect on the past year in hopes that I accomplished what God has called me to do. My goal is to be a blessing to others in all my activities. My desire is to appoint people to Jesus who alone brings hope of salvation.


To ponder is to wonder in the mystery without loosing heart. Mary, the mother of Jesus pondered in her heart the incredible miracle within her(Read Luke 2


There is a mystery that is wrapped in a blanket lying in a manger. He is the hope that we have as Christians. Not only in His birth but also in His death we discover the incredible gift of salvation which brings new life!


No amount of Christmas gifts can fill the void that is within all of us. Only in Christ alone where we find the joy we celebrate called Christmas. For under us a child is born who is Christ the Lord.


 What do you hope for that is filling you with wonder?